Ajuda para casais
Deus fortalece casamentos. A Bíblia oferece sabedoria prática para casais: comunicar com verdade, perdoar com graça, servir com amor e buscar a Deus juntos.
Amor e respeito
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres. Mulheres, respeitem seus maridos. O amor mútuo edifica o casamento.
Bayakala, zolenu bakhetu benu bwosu kázola Kidisitu Dibundu, amana wáditambika yandi meni kikuma kya dyawu;
Yi hakana ni, mosi-mosi wa benu kazola mukhetu wandi hanga yandi meni, amana mukhetu kazitisa yakala dyandi.
Phila mosi ni bayakala bafweti zola bakhetu ba bawu bwosu bisi zola lutu lwa bawu meni. Wuna wazola mukhetu wandi, kisi dizola yandi meni. Kikuma heku mutu wábwisa kedi lutu lwa yandi meni; kaasi kisilwa disa amana kisilwa yidika, bwosu kisibwa sala Kidisitu kikuma kya Dibundu,
Yihana ni, yambulenu bukamvi! Amana kosu mutu kazonza yi kyedika kwena khunda wandi, mukuma betu boosu thwenina bitini bya lutu lumosi.
Ho lwakala mu khabu, lusumukaku; lunimbaku yi khabu. Lumuhekaku kizika kiphidi-mutu.
Ka ndinga yimosi ku ya mbi yalubuka muna munwa myenu, kaasi zonzakenu lwesi ndinga za bukheti, zina zisi tunga amana zisi hana khenda kwena babana babati yuka.
Katulenu mambu moosu ma khadi mana báluhanga, nganzi, khabu, bikalu, ngusi yi mbi za phila yosu. Kalenu bukheti benu yi benu, kalenu yi mbundu ya kyadi; amana dilolulenu benu yi benu bwosu kálulolula Nzambi mwena Kidisitu.
União e fidelidade
O que Deus ajuntou não separe o homem. Eu e minha casa serviremos ao Senhor. A fidelidade é alicerce do casamento.
Ndangu bakálaku hika bodi, kaasi mutu mosi. Disongidila, kina kakasi Nzambi, mutu kahambulaku.»
Mutu wosu kazitisalwa longu amana basumunayoku thangi ya longu. Nzambi kafúndisa bita-mbongi yi bakwa kisanda.
Bayakala yi bakhetu, bana yi bibuti
Bakhetu, lemvukenu kwena bayakala benu, bwosu bulombini mwena Pfumu.
Bayala, zolenu bakhetu benu, amana lulubulaku phisi kwena bawu.
Amana hana thandu ya byosu, vwatenu lungongu, mukuma lwenina zita dya mukwandi dya kikhunda. Yambula ngemba ya Kidisitu, yina kálutedila Nzambi mu kukala bitini bya lutu lumosi, yayala muna mbundu zenu. Zayakenu mu kuvutula matondu.
Yi bwabuna ni, benu básola kwena Nzambi, batu ba Nzambi yi batu batondama; vwatenu tsambu ya kyedika, buweti, kudikulumuna, lembami yi sipha dya mbundu. Ditambwasakenu benu yi benu; yuka mutu kanyengalakana kikuma kya mukwawu, difwilakenu khenda bwosu buna kálufwila Pfumu khenda. Benu phi, hangenu bwabuna.
Perdão e paciência
Sede bondosos e compassivos uns com os outros. O amor é paciente, benigno. Permanece e persevera.
Lungongu lwenina sipha dya mbundu, lungongu lwisi sadisa, lweku yi kiphala, lungongu lwisiku ditsikisa, lweku yi kinaka; lungongu lwisiku hanga mambu ma tsoni, lweku yi bwimi, lwisiku yuka khabu, lweku yi tsita. Lungongu lwisiku sephila yi kukonda kwa masonga, kaasi lwisi sephila kaka yi kyedika. Lungongu lwisi lolula mambu moosu, lwisi kwikila mambu moosu, lwisi sya kivuvu mu moosu, lwisi vibidila mu moosu.
Kwena babana bákwela kedi, kizila kimosi yibaheki –kitukiku kwena Pfumu– mukhetu kadihambulaku yi yakala dyandi. Ho ni wádihambula, kazinga bwabuna konda yakala, kondilo badilomba mulemvu yi yakala dyandi; amana yakala kamuyambwadilaku mukhetu wandi.
Mboti yakala kalungisa kiyeka kyandi kwena mukhetu wandi, mukhetu phi kahanga mutindu wumosi kwena yakala dyandi. Mukhetu kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya yakala dyandi; mutindu wumosi kwena yakala, kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya mukhetu wandi. Ludikandaku thangi mukhetu yi yakala, akolu ni, lwayukana benu bodi, amana phi mu tangwa dya khunda ndangu lwadihana mu lombilu; kunima luvutwakidi luzingu lwenu lwa thangi; kondilo, mu kukonda kwa kwatakani, lwadiyambwadila nana mu bimeka bya Satana.
Luhangaku kima mu mbundu ya kuwila, kondilo mu kusanda lukumu lwa phamba-phamba kaasi mu kudikulumunaka, lwamonaka bakwenu hanga mbedi ni baluhitini benu. Ka mutu ku kasandaka lwesi muluta wa yandi meni, kaasi kosu mutu kabanzilaka phi bakwawu.
Tekikenu matu ni mutu kavutulaku mbela kwena mukwawu; kaasi sandakenu kosu tangwa mu kuhangaka bukheti, benu yi benu yi kwena mutu wosu.