Casamento
O casamento é aliança sagrada instituída por Deus. Ele une marido e mulher em uma só carne — pacto de amor, fidelidade e companheirismo que reflete o amor de Cristo pela Igreja.
Fundamento divino
Não é bom que o homem esteja só. Deus criou o casamento como aliança de companheirismo, amor e fecundidade.
Fidelidade conjugal
O que Deus ajuntou não separe o homem. O casamento deve ser honrado e o leito matrimonial preservado sem impureza.
Ihyo si vakuva vavili kaha, lechelelo vakuva muvili gumwe. Kwasawuli iyo cho achihudikitse Mulungu, munu alekaje kuchihudula."
Yesu akavajibulaje, "Mbe simukasomile mu Maandiko ga Mulungu kuta, kuhuma katali avawumbite munu mulume na munu mudala? Nayo Mulungu alontsile kuta, kwasawuli ya ihyo, munu akumuleka dade na yuve akihudikitsa hamwe na mudala vake, na ivo vavili vakuva muvili gumwe. Ihyo si vakuva vavili kaha, lechelelo vakuva muvili gumwe. Kwasawuli iyo cho achihudikitse Mulungu, munu alekaje kuchihudula."
Nayo Mulungu alontsile kuta, kwasawuli ya ihyo, munu akumuleka dade na yuve akihudikitsa hamwe na mudala vake, na ivo vavili vakuva muvili gumwe. Ihyo si vakuva vavili kaha, lechelelo vakuva muvili gumwe. Kwasawuli iyo cho achihudikitse Mulungu, munu alekaje kuchihudula."
Madahitso ga talaka
"Kaha yalontsilwe kuta, manyi munu yoyuve yo an’gana kumuleka mudala vake amwandichilaje baluva ya kwileka. Lechelelo heni ntsinkuvalonjela kuta, chila munu yo akumuleka mudala vake kwa chambutso cha kivasa na munu yunji, angumudita mudala vake ave mwaafu, na munu yoyuve yo akumutola mudala uyo akuva mwaafu.
Madahitso ga ndongwa tsa waafu
Yesu akendelelaje kulonga "Muhuliche vanu vakatali valontsile kuta, walahogola kivasa na mudala au mulume yosi vako. Lechelelo heni ntsinguvalonjela, chila munu yo akumulava mudala yoyuve kwa mbwiniwo, akuva mwanga avasise nayo mu numbula yake.
Nawo vakamulonjelaje, "Musa atulajitse kuta, mulume afuluche amwandichile vake litatasi lya kulekana na kumuleka." Yesu akavalonjelaje, "Musa avandichilye lilajitso ilyo kwasawuli ya wutalamu wenyu wa kuhulikitsa madahitso. Lechelelo kuhuma kuwumbwa kwa inyi, Mulungu awumbite munu mulume na munu mudala. Ihyo mulume akuvaleka yuve na dade na vakwihantsa na vake, na iwo vavili vakuva muvili gumwe na si vavili kaha. Duve, chinu chila cho achihantsitse Mulungu, munu alekaje kuchilekanitsa."
Hihyo na mudala yo akulekana na mulume vake na kutoleka na mulume yunji, akuva an’dita waafu na yula mulume yunji."
Amor como Cristo
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a igreja. O amor conjugal reflete o evangelho em ação.
Henye nanye valume muvaganaje vadala venyu kota hila Chilisito fyo achiganile chikundi chake, na akitawulaje mwene kwasawuli ya icho. Chilisito adisile ihyo kukolela kwa Ndongwa tsake na ili chive chihagulwa na kuchidita chidichilwe na Mulungu kwa kuchihofuga kwa malenga.
Henye nanye valume muvaganaje vadala venyu kota hila Chilisito fyo achiganile chikundi chake, na akitawulaje mwene kwasawuli ya icho. Chilisito adisile ihyo kukolela kwa Ndongwa tsake na ili chive chihagulwa na kuchidita chidichilwe na Mulungu kwa kuchihofuga kwa malenga. Ihyo Chilisito afweye ili achipate chikundi chake chihagulwa cho chilihela nongwa yoyive awu chinu chochive cho chinhwana na ndongwa itso.
Henye nanye valume muvaganaje vadala venyu kota hila Chilisito fyo achiganile chikundi chake, na akitawulaje mwene kwasawuli ya icho. Chilisito adisile ihyo kukolela kwa Ndongwa tsake na ili chive chihagulwa na kuchidita chidichilwe na Mulungu kwa kuchihofuga kwa malenga. Ihyo Chilisito afweye ili achipate chikundi chake chihagulwa cho chilihela nongwa yoyive awu chinu chochive cho chinhwana na ndongwa itso. Hohihyo valume nawo van’ganika kuvagana vadala vawo kota hila fyo vangujigana mivili jawo, kwasawuli mulume yo angumugana mudala vake ankuva angigana mwene. Kwakuva kuduhuli munu yoyuve yo aguvipilaga muvili gwake, ila agulisaga na kugufwika myenda. Hihyo nayo Chilisito fyo achituntsaga chikundi chake. Hetwe tweka tuli filungo fya muvili gwake.
Hohihyo valume nawo van’ganika kuvagana vadala vawo kota hila fyo vangujigana mivili jawo, kwasawuli mulume yo angumugana mudala vake ankuva angigana mwene.
Hohihyo valume nawo van’ganika kuvagana vadala vawo kota hila fyo vangujigana mivili jawo, kwasawuli mulume yo angumugana mudala vake ankuva angigana mwene. Kwakuva kuduhuli munu yoyuve yo aguvipilaga muvili gwake, ila agulisaga na kugufwika myenda. Hihyo nayo Chilisito fyo achituntsaga chikundi chake. Hetwe tweka tuli filungo fya muvili gwake.
Henye vadala muvahulikitsaje valume venyu kota hila fyo mungumuhulikitsa Mutwa. Mulume amulongotsaje mudala vake, kota hila Chilisito fyo anguchilongotsa chikundi cha vanu wo vangumutumba mwene. Nayo Chilisito yo mukulusi va chikundi chake, nacho cho muvili gwake. Kota hila chikundi cha vanya litumbilo lya Chilisito fyo chimuhulikitsaga Chilisito, ho hihyo vadala nawo van’ganika vavahulikitse valume vawo kwa chila chinu.
Henye vadala muvahulikitsaje valume venyu kota hila fyo mungumuhulikitsa Mutwa. Mulume amulongotsaje mudala vake, kota hila Chilisito fyo anguchilongotsa chikundi cha vanu wo vangumutumba mwene. Nayo Chilisito yo mukulusi va chikundi chake, nacho cho muvili gwake.
Henye vadala muvahulikitsaje valume venyu kota hila fyo mungumuhulikitsa Mutwa. Mulume amulongotsaje mudala vake, kota hila Chilisito fyo anguchilongotsa chikundi cha vanu wo vangumutumba mwene. Nayo Chilisito yo mukulusi va chikundi chake, nacho cho muvili gwake. Kota hila chikundi cha vanya litumbilo lya Chilisito fyo chimuhulikitsaga Chilisito, ho hihyo vadala nawo van’ganika vavahulikitse valume vawo kwa chila chinu.
Henye nanye valume muvaganaje vadala venyu kota hila Chilisito fyo achiganile chikundi chake, na akitawulaje mwene kwasawuli ya icho. Chilisito adisile ihyo kukolela kwa Ndongwa tsake na ili chive chihagulwa na kuchidita chidichilwe na Mulungu kwa kuchihofuga kwa malenga. Ihyo Chilisito afweye ili achipate chikundi chake chihagulwa cho chilihela nongwa yoyive awu chinu chochive cho chinhwana na ndongwa itso. Hohihyo valume nawo van’ganika kuvagana vadala vawo kota hila fyo vangujigana mivili jawo, kwasawuli mulume yo angumugana mudala vake ankuva angigana mwene. Kwakuva kuduhuli munu yoyuve yo aguvipilaga muvili gwake, ila agulisaga na kugufwika myenda. Hihyo nayo Chilisito fyo achituntsaga chikundi chake. Hetwe tweka tuli filungo fya muvili gwake. Mandiko ganlonga, "Kwasawuli iyo mulume akumuleka dade na yuve, nayo akihantsa na mudala vake, nawo iwo vavili vakuva muvili gumwe." Kuna wukweli wo wifihite mu ndongwa tsino, lechelelo heni ntsinlonga ndongwa tsa Chilisito na chikundi chake hela. Nambe ihyo, chila mulume an’ganika amugane mudala vake kota fyo angigana mwene. Nayo mudala an’ganika amuhesimilaje mulume vake.
Mandiko ganlonga, "Kwasawuli iyo mulume akumuleka dade na yuve, nayo akihantsa na mudala vake, nawo iwo vavili vakuva muvili gumwe."
Nambe ihyo, chila mulume an’ganika amugane mudala vake kota fyo angigana mwene. Nayo mudala an’ganika amuhesimilaje mulume vake.
Nambe ihyo, chila mulume an’ganika amugane mudala vake kota fyo angigana mwene. Nayo mudala an’ganika amuhesimilaje mulume vake.
Lechelelo henye sambi muveye vahagulwa va Mulungu, ndongwa tsa kuvasa na valume na vadala vanji, na ndongwa tsa kuhanga nyoni, na kiwiniwa fyalahogola kuwoneka hagati henyu.
Submissão e respeito
Mulheres, sujeitem-se aos próprios maridos. Maridos, convivam com as esposas com conhecimento e honra.
Pureza no casamento
Não adulterarás. A impureza sexual destrói alianças e famílias. Deus chama à santidade no matrimônio.
Lelo kwasawuli ya kulutila kwa ndongwa tsa waafu, chila mulume avaje na mudala vake mwene, na chila mudala avaje na mulume vake mwene.
Mulume an’ganika akwilitsaje chila cho chin’ganika kukwitsa kwa mudala vake, nayo mudala akwilitsaje cho an’ganika kukwitsa kwa mulume. Mudala alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake aliyena ila na mulume vake nayo, na hihyo mulume nayo alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake, ila na mudala vake.
Mulume an’ganika akwilitsaje chila cho chin’ganika kukwitsa kwa mudala vake, nayo mudala akwilitsaje cho an’ganika kukwitsa kwa mulume. Mudala alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake aliyena ila na mulume vake nayo, na hihyo mulume nayo alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake, ila na mudala vake. Mulekaje kiyima mivili jenyu, lechelelo hala hela ho mukuva mupatine kwa luvala lutunga, ila hala ho mukuva mulagine kumusuka Mulungu. Na hala ho mukuva musintsile kusuka muwuye kaha, ili Lihoka lileche kupata nyafwasi ya kuvajela kwasawuli ya kulemwa kikangatsa.
Mulume an’ganika akwilitsaje chila cho chin’ganika kukwitsa kwa mudala vake, nayo mudala akwilitsaje cho an’ganika kukwitsa kwa mulume. Mudala alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake aliyena ila na mulume vake nayo, na hihyo mulume nayo alihela mamulaka kwa muvili gwake, ila na mudala vake. Mulekaje kiyima mivili jenyu, lechelelo hala hela ho mukuva mupatine kwa luvala lutunga, ila hala ho mukuva mulagine kumusuka Mulungu. Na hala ho mukuva musintsile kusuka muwuye kaha, ili Lihoka lileche kupata nyafwasi ya kuvajela kwasawuli ya kulemwa kikangatsa.
Lechelelo ntsinlonga kuta vala wo sivatolite na vafwile, yika kuva chiba vasigale hihyo kota heni fyontsili. Lechelelo manyi vanlemwa kutsisuma mbwiniwo tsawo, duve nawo vatole na kutoleka, kwasawuli chiba kutola awu kutoleka kuliko kiwiniwa.
Kwa vala wo mwanga vitweye tsinguvapela malajitso iga kuta, mudala alahogola kulekana na mulume vake, iga go malagitso ga Mutwa siyo heni ndaya. Lechelelo manyi mudala valekane na mulume vake an’ganika aleche kutoleka kaha. Manyi si ihyo ipilule kaha kwa mulume vake. Nayo mulume nayo alahogola kumuleka mudala vake.
Kwakuva uyo mulume yo sinambeamutumbye Chilisito akudichilwa na Mulungu kwa kihantsa na mudala vake, nayo mudala yo sinambeamutumbye Chilisito akudichilwa na Mulungu kwa kihantsa na mulume vake. Manyi yikayive si ihyo vana venyu sivakakudichilwa na Mulungu.
Ntsin’gana henye mulekaje kupipilika. Kwasawuli munu yo siatolite aditaga ndongwa tso angutsigana Mutwa ng’ani, kwasawuli an’gana kumudita Mutwa ahechelele. Lechelelo munu yo atolite ankuva an’dita ndongwa tsa mu inyi yino, kwasawuli an’gana mudala vake ahechelele, na kaha mahotso gake gavaga gavili gavili. Nayo muhintsa yo siatoliche aditaga ndongwa tso angutsigana Mutwa ng’ani, kwasawuli an’gana kumudita Mutwa ahechelele, ili ave muhagulwa na itawule kwa muvili na muhe gwake kwa Mutwa. Lechelelo yula yo atoliche akuva an’dita ndongwa tsa mu inyi yino, kwasawuli an’gana mulume vake ahechelele.
Mudala an’ganika kikala na mulume vake luvala lweka lwa wumi wawo. Lechelelo manyi mulume uyo atajiche, mudala uyo afuluche atoleche na mulume yoyuve yo angumugana mwene. Ila mulume uyo an’ganika ave angumutumba Chilisito.
Madahitso ga kutolana
Duve kwa ndongwa tsila tso mwantsandichilye.
Munlonga kuta, yikakuva chiba mulume aleche kutola. Lelo kwasawuli ya kulutila kwa ndongwa tsa waafu, chila mulume avaje na mudala vake mwene, na chila mudala avaje na mulume vake mwene.
Ihyo mubilime ndongwa tsa waafu. Kwasawuli chila ndongwa ntsibi tso aditaga munu aditaga mwivala mwa muvili gwake, lechelelo munu yo an’dita ndongwa ntsibi ya waafu ankuva angiditila mwene mu muvili gwake. Mbe, simun’tsela kuta mivili jenyu yo Nyumba ya Muhe wa Mulungu yo angikala mugati mwenyu, yo mupelitwe na Mulungu? Ihyo mivili si jenyu muvene, ila ja Mulungu, yo avagutsile kwa galama ngomi ndalahela. Ihyo lelo mumutsumitsaje Mulungu kwa mivili jenyu.
Munu yumwe afuluche alonje, "Chilyo kochili kwasawuli ya lileme, na lileme kwasawuli ya chilyo." Eee, lechelelo Mulungu akufyananga fyeka fivili. Mulungu aguwumbite muvili gwa munu siyo kwasawuli ya kudita waafu, lechelelo muvili guli kwasawuli ya kumutumichila Mutwa, nayo Mutwa yo agutuntsaga muvili na kugupela chilyo. Nayo Mulungu yo amutsilipwe Mutwa Yesu, uyo akututsilipula na hetwe kwa wuvetso wake.
Mbe, simun’tsela kuta vanu wo van’dita wubi sivafuluche vinjile mu Wuntsajila wa Mulungu? Mwalahogola kudeteletswa kuta vanu vaafu awu wo vanfugamila misanamu, awu wo van’dita waafu na valume vayawo, awu wo vanguvinjilila finji vayawo, awu vahitsi, awu kiwiniwa finu fya vayawo five fyawo, awu vagatsi, awu vahehi, awu vawumiyani, iwo veka sivakwinjila mu Wuntsajila wa Mulungu.
Munu munya wugano ikangatsaga, avatangaga vanu vanji, munya wugano alihela mbafya, si idayaga na kaha si idutsaga, munya wugano si akosaga kuva na hesima, si asakaga ndongwa tsa kumutanga mwene, na kaha siavaga mupefu kuvipa, si iwukaga wubi wowuve, kaha munu munya wugano si ahechelelaga wubi ila ahechelelaga ndongwa tsa wukweli. Munya wugano ikangatsaga mu ndongwa tseka, avatumbaga vanu vanji, na ihuvilaga ndongwa tseka.
Mbe, Chilisito agaviche mu fikundi fikundi? Mbe Pawulo yo avambitwe mu musalaba kwasawuli yenyu? Awu mbe, mwabatitswe ili muve vadahitswa va Pawulo? Ntsingumulumba Mulungu kuta sitsamubatitse munu yoyuve hagati henyu, ila ntsavabatitse Chilisipo na Gayo ng’ani. Ihyo lelo kuduhu munu yoyuve yo afuluche alonje kuta abatitswe ili ave mudahitswa vangu. Eena! Ntsiwuche kuta vanu vanji wo ntsavabatitse wo vala va mukaye ya Sitefwana. Lechelelo kulutila iwo sinambentsiwuche kuta ntsamubatitse munu yunji yoyuve. Chilisito sianumile kubatitsa, ila anumile kuvikula Ndongwa Nofu, ila sintsavikwe kwa kihuvila nyala tsa vanu, ndisile ihyo ili wuvetso wa chifo cha Chilisito mu musalaba wuleche kubedalwa.
Munu mwaafu siaganikaga
Kotsili ndongwa tso tsitagalye kuta mun’dita waafu, wo sinambewuditwe nambe na vanu wo sinambevamutumbile Mulungu. Kuta munu an’dita waafu na mudala va dade. Na henye mungidutsila chinu chachi? Mbe si mun’ganika kususutala na kumubagula kutali na henye munu yo adisile ndongwa itso?
Sabedoria conjugal
Acha esposa, acha o bem. Bebe água da tua própria cisterna. A fidelidade conjugal é fonte de bênção permanente.
Bíblia e casamento
Deus abomina o divórcio. A aliança matrimonial é reflexo da aliança de Deus com seu povo — sagrada e eterna.
Kuleka kihantsa na vanu wo sinambevamutumbe Mulungu
Mulekaje kihantsa hamwe na vanu wo sinambevamutumbile Mulungu. Mbe, wuwuya na wubi fifuluche fihanje? Mbe, mwangatsa gufuluche gwihatse na jitsa?
Exemplos bíblicos
O Cântico dos Cânticos celebra o amor conjugal. A Bíblia honra o casamento em toda a sua beleza e profundidade.
Juízo e restauração
O Senhor é testemunha do pacto conjugal. Casamentos quebrados podem ser restaurados pelo poder e graça de Deus.
Kahi ha Nyumba ya Mulungu kwavaga na mudala yumwe Muloli, litawa lyake achemwaga Ana muhintsa va Fanuweli, yoali va likabila lya Aseli. Avaga mugogolo ndala hela, ali atoliche na mulume vakikalasaje myaka saba, na hambele mulume vake akafwaje.
"Manyi munu akulibulitse ku liwungo, ulekaje kwikala figoda fya hesima. Kwasawuli yifuluche yive alibulitswe munu yunji muvina kulutila heve mu chigoda icho,
Munu yoyuve yo angumuleka mudala vake na kumutola mudala yunji an’dita waafu, na mulume yoyuve yakumutola mudala yalesilwe, nayo an’dita waafu.
Mu siku tsa Nuwu vanu vavaga vankulya na kung’wa, kutola na kutoleka, mbaka hala Nuwu hoavaga kwinjila mu litumbwi likomi. Ndonya ngomi yikatonyaje na likuka likomi likahumilaje na kukopola chila chinu.
Yesu ho avaga kwinula mutwi siamuwene munu yunyi, ila yula mudala ng’ani, ihyo akamuputsaje, Bee, mudala! Valikwiya vala vanu wovakuhigije kuta una nongwa? Mudala yula akamupitulaje, "Muvina haduhu nambe yumwe." Nayo Yesu akamulonjelaje, "Na heni singukuhiga. Duve ubite, ulekaje kudita ndongwa ntsibi kanji."
Chila munu yo alesile nyumba awu vang’olotse mulume awu vadada awu yuve awu migunda kwasawuli ya heni, akwanuchila mala mya na kulutila, na akupata wumi wo wugaya wudugo.
Vakamulonjelaje kuta, "Mudahitsi, Musa avaga atulonje kuta munu yo atweye mudala manyi afwe bila kuva na mwana, yin’ganika mung’olotse amuhale mufwile uyo, ili amulelele vana mung’olotse yo afweye.
Kwasawuli vanu wo vafweye ho vakutsilipuka sivakutola awu kutoleka, kwasawuli vakuva kota vatantsi va Kilanga va Mulungu.
Kwasawuli mu numbula gahumaga mahotso mabi kota hila, kukopola, na waafu, na mbwiniwo tsa waafu, na wuhitsi, na wudesi, na wusongeletsi.
Duve ng’olwa tsa muvili tsin’tselanika tso itsi, waafu, na kuvasa na mulume awu mudala vanji, na udita ndongwa tsa nyoni, kujifugamila misanamu, na wuhavi, na mabatu, na mbafya, na mbipi, na wupunganitsi, na chitika, na wusongapisi, kuwona mbafya, na wugatsi, na wuhatufu na ndongwa tsinji tsotsihwana na itso. Ntsinguvafunda kanji kota fyo ntsalongwe kuvafunda kuta, vanu wovan’dita ndongwa kota itso, nachene sivakwinjila mu Wuntsajila wa Mulungu.
Kota hila mudala yo atoliche si afuluche atoleche na mulume yunji manyi mulume vake ang’acha mumi, lechelelo manyi mulume afwe, mudala yula akuva adindulwe na gala malajitso ga noleka. Ihyo mudala uyo manyi atoleche na mulume yunji, na kuno mulume vake ang’acha mumi, mudala uyo akuchemwa mwaafu. Lechelelo manyi mulume vake afwe, malajitso ga noleka gakuva gamulechye mudala uyo, nayo afuluche atoleche na mulume yunji na si akuchemwa mwaafu.