7 ensinamentos de Jesus sobre relacionamento na Bíblia
Os ensinamentos de Jesus sobre relacionamento vão além de conselhos práticos, eles são lições profundas sobre amor, perdão, humildade e cuidado com o próximo. Seja no contexto familiar, de amizade ou comunitário, suas palavras nos mostram como viver em harmonia com os outros.
A seguir, abordamos sete momentos em que Jesus falou sobre relacionamentos na Bíblia:
1. Amar o próximo como a si mesmo
Jesus said, "‘Love the Lord your God with all your passion and prayer and intelligence.’ This is the most important, the first on any list. But there is a second to set alongside it: ‘Love others as well as you love yourself.’ These two commands are pegs; everything in God’s Law and the Prophets hangs from them."
Esse ensinamento resume toda a Lei e os Profetas, destacando que o amor ao próximo é fundamental em qualquer relacionamento.
2. Perdoar de coração
A Story About Forgiveness
At that point Peter got up the nerve to ask, "Master, how many times do I forgive a brother or sister who hurts me? Seven?"
Jesus replied, "Seven! Hardly. Try seventy times seven.
Jesus enfatiza a necessidade de perdoar ilimitadamente, promovendo a reconciliação e a paz.
3. Servir uns aos outros
When the ten others heard about this, they lost their tempers, thoroughly disgusted with the two brothers. So Jesus got them together to settle things down. He said, "You’ve observed how godless rulers throw their weight around, how quickly a little power goes to their heads. It’s not going to be that way with you. Whoever wants to be great must become a servant. Whoever wants to be first among you must be your slave. That is what the Son of Man has done: He came to serve, not be served—and then to give away his life in exchange for the many who are held hostage."
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Aqui, Jesus ensina que a verdadeira liderança e grandeza estão em servir os outros com humildade.
4. Amar até os inimigos
"You’re familiar with the old written law, ‘Love your friend,’ and its unwritten companion, ‘Hate your enemy.’ I’m challenging that. I’m telling you to love your enemies. Let them bring out the best in you, not the worst. When someone gives you a hard time, respond with the supple moves of prayer, for then you are working out of your true selves, your God-created selves. This is what God does. He gives his best—the sun to warm and the rain to nourish—to everyone, regardless: the good and bad, the nice and nasty. If all you do is love the lovable, do you expect a bonus? Anybody can do that. If you simply say hello to those who greet you, do you expect a medal? Any run-of-the-mill sinner does that.
Esse mandamento radical desafia nossos limites de amor, mostrando que relacionamentos saudáveis envolvem superar rancores.
5. Evitar julgamentos precipitados
A Simple Guide for Behavior
"Don’t pick on people, jump on their failures, criticize their faults—unless, of course, you want the same treatment. That critical spirit has a way of boomeranging. It’s easy to see a smudge on your neighbor’s face and be oblivious to the ugly sneer on your own. Do you have the nerve to say, ‘Let me wash your face for you,’ when your own face is distorted by contempt? It’s this whole traveling road-show mentality all over again, playing a holier-than-thou part instead of just living your part. Wipe that ugly sneer off your own face, and you might be fit to offer a washcloth to your neighbor.
Jesus nos lembra de praticar a empatia e a compreensão antes de condenar os outros.
6. Construir relacionamentos com base no amor
"I’ve told you these things for a purpose: that my joy might be your joy, and your joy wholly mature. This is my command: Love one another the way I loved you. This is the very best way to love. Put your life on the line for your friends. You are my friends when you do the things I command you. I’m no longer calling you servants because servants don’t understand what their master is thinking and planning. No, I’ve named you friends because I’ve let you in on everything I’ve heard from the Father.
Esse mandamento reforça que o padrão de amor para os relacionamentos deve ser o amor incondicional de Jesus.
7. Reconciliar-se antes de adorar a Deus
"This is how I want you to conduct yourself in these matters. If you enter your place of worship and, about to make an offering, you suddenly remember a grudge a friend has against you, abandon your offering, leave immediately, go to this friend and make things right. Then and only then, come back and work things out with God.
Jesus ensina que a reconciliação é um passo essencial para nossa comunhão com Deus.
Esses ensinamentos de Jesus nos convidam a transformar nossos relacionamentos em reflexos do amor divino, construindo uma vida baseada na paz, no perdão e na empatia. Aproveite e convide mais pessoas a lerem este artigo, compartilhe a Palavra de Deus.