Marido e mulher
O casamento é aliança sagrada entre marido e mulher, instituída por Deus desde o Éden. A Bíblia define papéis complementares fundados em amor, respeito e fidelidade mútua.
Instituição divina
Deus criou homem e mulher e os uniu em uma só carne. O casamento é projeto divino que reflete o amor de Cristo pela Igreja.
Amana yandi mu kuvutula, wuzimbudi: «Lwátangaku ni, "ku luyanduku, kábahanga mukhetu yi yakala", amana kázimbula: "Ihana ni, yakala kasísa tata wandi yi ngudi wandi, amana kakhúndakana yi mukhetu wandi, amana bakítuka, bawu bodi, musuni wumosi". Ndangu bakálaku hika bodi, kaasi mutu mosi. Disongidila, kina kakasi Nzambi, mutu kahambulaku.»
Papéis no casamento
O marido ama e a mulher respeita. Ambos se submetem voluntariamente a Deus e um ao outro, em parceria e unidade.
Bayakala, zolenu bakhetu benu bwosu kázola Kidisitu Dibundu, amana wáditambika yandi meni kikuma kya dyawu; ndangu katomisadya, mu kusemisadya mu mamba yi mu Ndinga. Kázola ni Dibundu meni dina dyamonika ku thwala ya yandi, yi khembu, dyakonda mvindu, keti tona, keti kifu kimosi. Kaasi dyakala dyatoma amana dyakonda kifu. Phila mosi ni bayakala bafweti zola bakhetu ba bawu bwosu bisi zola lutu lwa bawu meni. Wuna wazola mukhetu wandi, kisi dizola yandi meni. Kikuma heku mutu wábwisa kedi lutu lwa yandi meni; kaasi kisilwa disa amana kisilwa yidika, bwosu kisibwa sala Kidisitu kikuma kya Dibundu,
Yi hana ni bakhetu, lemvukenu kwena bayakala benu bwosu lwisi lemvuka kwena Pfumu. Mukuma, yakala kenina pfumu wa mukhetu, bwosu kenina Kidisitu Pfumu wa Dibundu dina dyenina lutu lwandi, amana yandi phi wenina Muhuludi wa dyawu. Disongidila, bulungi bakhetu balemvuka kwena bayakala ba bawu bwosu buna dyisi lemvuka Dibundu kwena Kidisitu.
Yi hakana ni, mosi-mosi wa benu kazola mukhetu wandi hanga yandi meni, amana mukhetu kazitisa yakala dyandi.
Bayakala yi bakhetu, bana yi bibuti
Bakhetu, lemvukenu kwena bayakala benu, bwosu bulombini mwena Pfumu.
Bayala, zolenu bakhetu benu, amana lulubulaku phisi kwena bawu.
Fidelidade e união
O casamento é honroso e deve ser preservado com fidelidade. O cordão de três dobras não se rompe facilmente.
Permanecer juntos
O que Deus uniu, o homem não separe. A Bíblia protege o casamento e orienta sobre convivência, perdão e perseverança conjugal.
Kyufu kitadidini longu
Tuyambilenu kikuma kya kisyati kina lwátsonikina. Bwenina bukheti kwena yakala ni kazingaku yi mukhetu. Kaasi kikuma kya kudikenga ku mbongi, bulungi kosu yakala kakala yi mukhetu wandi amana kosu mukhetu kakala yi yakala dyandi. Mboti yakala kalungisa kiyeka kyandi kwena mukhetu wandi, mukhetu phi kahanga mutindu wumosi kwena yakala dyandi. Mukhetu kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya yakala dyandi; mutindu wumosi kwena yakala, kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya mukhetu wandi. Ludikandaku thangi mukhetu yi yakala, akolu ni, lwayukana benu bodi, amana phi mu tangwa dya khunda ndangu lwadihana mu lombilu; kunima luvutwakidi luzingu lwenu lwa thangi; kondilo, mu kukonda kwa kwatakani, lwadiyambwadila nana mu bimeka bya Satana.
Kwena babana bákwela kedi, kizila kimosi yibaheki –kitukiku kwena Pfumu– mukhetu kadihambulaku yi yakala dyandi. Ho ni wádihambula, kazinga bwabuna konda yakala, kondilo badilomba mulemvu yi yakala dyandi; amana yakala kamuyambwadilaku mukhetu wandi.
Kaasi ho ni mutu wukondi kala mukwikidi wuzodi kadihambula yi mukwawu wuna wa mukwikidi, kadihambula. Muna mambu ma mutindu wuna, phangi wa yakala keti phangi wa mukhetu, wukatukini mu kihika, mukuma Nzambi kálutela ndangu lwazingila mu ngemba. Kikuma, abweti wazáyila, ngeyi mukhetu, ho ni wahulula yakala dyaku? Kondilo abweti wazáyila, ngeyi yakala, ho ni wahulula mukhetu waku?
Yihana ni, mukhetu yandu wenina ha moku ma yakala dyandi, kenina wakuzitikila ku mitsiku muna thangwa dina kenina yakala moya; kaasi honi yakala dyandi wufini, yandi wukutumukini ku mitsiku myandi mina myakala muzitikila kwena yakala dyandi.