O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Imwɨ abhasubhɨ, mʉsɨɨgɨ abhakari bhaanyu chɨmbu Kiriisitʉ wʉʉsi aasɨɨgirɨ risengerero, akiihurucha kukwa igʉrʉ waryʉ.
Ɨbhuɨbhu ɨrabheenda abhasubhɨ bhʉʉsi kʉsɨɨga abhakari bhaabhʉ chɨmbu ɨmɨbhɨrɨ jabhʉ abheene. Wʉnʉ akʉsɨɨga mʉkaazɨ ahiisɨɨga umwene.
Ɨbhuɨbhu ɨrabheenda abhasubhɨ bhʉʉsi kʉsɨɨga abhakari bhaabhʉ chɨmbu ɨmɨbhɨrɨ jabhʉ abheene. Wʉnʉ akʉsɨɨga mʉkaazɨ ahiisɨɨga umwene. Atareeho ʉmʉʉtʉ wʉnʉ ahaabhiihirirwa ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gwazɨ, nawe ahaagutuga na kugwangarɨra. Ɨbhu nɨmbu Kiriisitʉ wʉʉsi akwangarɨra risengerero,
Nawe na niimwɨ imwʉsi nɨrabhabhʉʉrɨra, abhasubhɨ bhʉʉsi mʉsɨɨgɨ abhakari bhaanyu chɨmbu mwisɨɨgirɨ imubheene, na abhakari bhʉʉsi bhareenderwa kʉsʉʉka abhasubhɨ bhaabhʉ.
Mmbe, mutigɨ ʉrʉrɨmɨ, abhaatʉ bhʉʉsi bhabhɨ bhariibhʉʉrɨra amaheene, kʉ kʉbha itwʉsi ni-bhiimʉ bhyʉ ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gʉmwɨ. Mʉbhɨ nu ubhwigatani, nawe mʉtakora ʉbhʉbhɨ, iryʉbha rɨtatʉbhɨra mʉkɨɨrɨ mwigatɨɨnɨ. Mʉtamoha Shɨtaani umweya abhahizɨ. Umwibhi, atiibha naatu, nawe akore emeremo ɨmɨzʉmu kʉmabhoko gaazɨ umwene, korereke atʉrɨ kʉbha ne ekegero cho okosondera wʉnʉ ataanachʉ. Mʉtagamba amangʼana amabhɨ, mʉgambɨ amangʼana amazʉmu gʉ ʉkʉsakirya abhandɨ kubhwɨndi bhwabhʉ. Gayo, garatʉra kʉbha na bhwera kʉbhanʉ bhakugitegeerera. Amahocha gaanyu, gatakora Ekoro Ɨndɨndu ya Mungu irumɨkɨ, kʉ kʉbha ewe nɨ-rʉkaamʉ rwa Mungu kwa niimwɨ, rʉnʉ rukwerecha imwɨ nɨ-bhaatʉ bhaazɨ, kuhika urusikʉ rʉnʉ Mungu akʉbhasabhʉra. Mmbe, mutiganɨ nʉ ʉbhʉhaari, ubhwigatani, ʉbhʉrʉrʉ, rirɨgɨ, amatuki nʉ ʉbhʉbhɨ bhwa zeteemwa zʉʉsi. Nawe mʉbhɨ muriikorera amazʉmu, mʉbhɨ bhɨ ɨbhɨgʉngi, na mʉbhɨ muriibheerera chɨmbu Mungu aabhabhɨɨrɨɨrɨ imwɨ kʉnzɨra ya Kiriisitʉ.
Na niimwɨ abhasubhɨ, mʉsɨɨgɨ abhakari bhaanyu, mʉtabha bhahaari kwebho.
Ubhwikari ʉbhʉzʉmu muzinyumba za Abhakiriisitʉ
Abhakari imwɨ, mʉsʉʉkɨ abhasubhɨ bhaanyu, chɨmbu ikwenderwa kʉbhaatʉ bhanʉ bhakwisirirya Ʉmʉkʉrʉ Yɨɨsu. Na niimwɨ abhasubhɨ, mʉsɨɨgɨ abhakari bhaanyu, mʉtabha bhahaari kwebho.
Kʉkɨra gayo gʉʉsi mʉsɨɨganɨ, kʉ kʉbha ʉbhʉsɨɨgi nebhwe bhukugwatanʼya bhʉʉsi mubhumwɨmwɨ bhʉnʉ bhʉnagirɨ.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Ubhukwɨri bhoreenderwa kusuukwa na abhaatʉ bhʉʉsi. Umusubhɨ nʉ ʉmʉkari bhiisizɨ ni ikisimbɨ, kʉ kʉbha Mungu aratɨnɨra abhasimbɨ na bhanʉ bhakʉtaara igʉtʉ.
Nawe inyɨ nɨrabhabhʉʉrɨra, umusubhɨ wʉnʉ akorora ʉmʉkari kwa kumwigomba, amarirɨ kosebheeta nawe mumwʉyʉ gwazɨ.
Nawe inyɨ nɨrabhabhʉʉrɨra, ʉmʉʉtʉ wʉnʉ akutiga mʉkaazɨ, ɨtarɨ igʉrʉ wɨ ɨtaarʉ, arakora ʉmʉkari waazɨ kʉbha musimbɨ. Na wʉwʉʉsi wʉnʉ araakwɨrɨ ʉmʉkari wʉnʉ atigirwɨ, wʉʉsi nɨ-mʉsɨbhɨɨti.
Na bhatakʉbha bhabhɨrɨ kwikɨ, nawe nɨ-mʉbhɨrɨ gʉmwɨ. Mmbe, kɨnʉ kɨgwataniibhwɨ na Mungu, mʉʉtʉ atakɨtaanʼya."
Umusubhɨ abhɨ arakorera mʉkaazɨ chɨmbu ikwenderwa, nʉ ʉmʉkari abhɨ arakorera umusubhɨ chɨmbu ikwenderwa. Ʉmʉkari ataana ʉbhʉnaja igʉrʉ wʉ ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gwazɨ, nawe umusubhɨ waazɨ newe anabhwɨ. Nu umusubhɨ ataana ʉbhʉnaja igʉrʉ wʉ ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gwazɨ, nawe mʉkaazɨ newe anabhwɨ.
Mutiiyima, hamwɨ arɨɨbhɨ mwisirirɨɨnʼyɨ kokorabhu kwibhaga irebhe, korereke mobhone ribhaga ryʉ ʉkʉsabha Mungu. Akʉmara mʉgarʉkanʼyɨ naatu, korereke Shɨtaani ataaza kʉbhagema kokora ubhusimbɨ kʉ kʉbha mʉtakʉtʉra kwigumirirya.
Kʉbhanʉ bhamarirɨ kwikwɨra, nɨrabhaswaja. Riswaja riyo rɨtarɨ ryanɨ, nawe riruurɨ kʉMʉkʉrʉ Yɨɨsu kʉbha, ʉmʉkari atataana nu umusubhɨ waazɨ. Nawe arɨtaanɨ nawe, atakwɨrwa nu umusubhɨ ʉwʉndɨ, hamwɨ iigwanɨ nu umusubhɨ waazɨ na kʉgarʉkanʼya. Nu umusubhɨ, atatiga ʉmʉkari waazɨ.
Nawe kubhiisirirya abhandɨ, amangʼana ganʉ niinyɨ nikubhuga, atarɨ Ʉmʉkʉrʉ Yɨɨsu. Arɨɨbhɨ umusubhɨ umwisirirya akwɨrirɨ ʉmʉkari wʉnʉ atarɨ umwisirirya, nʉ ʉmʉkari wuyo isiriiryɨ kwikara nawe, atamutiga.
Ɨbhu mwiyangarɨrɨ mʉtakora ubhusimbɨ. Ʉbhʉbhɨ ʉbhʉndɨ bhwʉsi bhʉnʉ ʉmʉʉtʉ akokora, ahaakora igʉtʉ wʉ ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gwazɨ, nawe ʉmʉʉtʉ wʉnʉ akokora ɨtaarʉ, ahaakora ʉbhʉbhɨ mʉʉsi wʉ ʉmʉbhɨrɨ gwazɨ umwene.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Na niimwɨ abhasubhɨ, mwikarɨ na abhakari bhaanyu kwa amangʼɨɨni, momenye kʉbha bhataana amanaga ncha niimwɨ. Mʉbhaangarɨrɨ kwa kʉbhasʉʉka, kʉ kʉbha bhʉʉsi bharagabha ɨbhɨgʉngi bhyʉ ʉbhʉhʉru. Mokorebhu korereke amasabhi gaanyu gataribhirwa na chʉchʉsi.
Mʉtakora ingʼana ryʉryʉsi kwɨ ɨkɨnyawɨɨtʉ nʉʉrʉ kubhwiyungi. Nawe mʉbhɨ nu ʉbhʉnyʉʉhu na kʉbhara abhandɨ bhanagu bhʉkʉngʼu kʉkɨra imwɨ. Ʉmʉʉtʉ atiiseega amangʼana gaazɨ ageenebhu, nawe iseege na amangʼana ga abhandɨ bhʉʉsi.
Morore, ʉmʉʉtʉ wʉwʉʉsi atagarukirya ʉmʉkɨndichazɨ ʉbhʉbhɨ kʉbhʉbhɨ. Nawe ibhaga ryʉsi mʉbhɨ muriikorera amazʉmu imubheene na kʉbhakorera abhaatʉ bhʉʉsi.
Ubhugwatani na abhaatʉ bhanʉ bhatarɨ abhiisirirya
Mʉtagwatana na abhaatʉ bhanʉ bhatarɨ abhiisirirya. Nangʉ, eheene nʉ ʉbhʉbhɨ bhɨratʉra kwigwana? Ubhwɨrʉ ni ikiirimya bhɨratʉrabhwɨ kʉbha hamwɨmwɨ?
Ʉbhʉsɨɨgi bhʉrakora ʉmʉʉtʉ abhɨ mwigumirirya, ʉmʉzʉmu, ataana rihari, abhɨ ataana ubhwiyungi, na ataana kisiraani. Ʉbhʉsɨɨgi bhʉrakora ʉmʉʉtʉ abhɨ arasʉʉka abhandɨ, bhʉtakokora kwiseega amangʼana gaazɨ ageene, nʉʉrʉ kwigatana bhwangʉ, nʉʉrʉ kʉbhɨɨka ʉbhʉrʉrʉ mokoro. Ʉbhʉsɨɨgi bhʉrakora ʉmʉʉtʉ atazomererwa ʉbhʉbhɨ, nawe kozomererwa amaheene. Ʉbhʉsɨɨgi bhʉrakora abhɨ ariigumirirya gʉʉsi, abhɨ anu ubhwisirirya ribhaga ryʉsi, abhɨ anu ubhwisɨgi ribhaga ryʉsi, na abhɨ mʉnagu kwa gʉʉsi.