O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Mota khan, apnikhan laga maiki khan ke morom koribi jineka Khrista tai laga girja ke korise aru etu nimite tai nije ke di dise,
Etu nisena mota khan bhi nijor maiki ke nijor gaw nisena morom koribo lage. Jun mota nijor maiki ke morom kore tai nijorke morom kora nisena ase.
Etu nisena mota khan bhi nijor maiki ke nijor gaw nisena morom koribo lage. Jun mota nijor maiki ke morom kore tai nijorke morom kora nisena ase. Kilekoile kunbi nijor gaw ke biya nalage, kintu tai bhal pora khilai aru sapha rakhe, jineka Khrista tai laga girja ke morom kore.
Kineka hoile bhi, apuni khan sobke koi ase, nijorke morom kora nisena nijor maiki ke morom koribi, aru maiki khan nijor mota ke sonman dibo lage.
Etu nimite misa phelai dibi, sob manu dusra manu logote hosa kotha kobi kele koile amikhan ekjon-dusra-jon laga bhag ase. Apnikhan khong hobi, aru paap na koribi: apnikhan laga khong uporte din khotom hobole nadibi. Bhoot khan ke bhal homoi to nadibi. Taikhan jun khan chor kore, taikhan chor nakori jabi. Ulta, tai kaam kori bole lage, tai laga hath khan pora utu kaam khan kori bole dibi juntu bhal ase hoile bhi, titia tai dusra ke dibole paribo junke dorkar ase. Apnikhan laga mukh pora misa-misi kotha khan ulabole nadibi, hoile bhi juntu kotha dusra ke uthai dibole nimite bhal ase, eneka pora huni thaka khan anugrah pabo. Aru Isor laga Pobitro Atma ke mon dukh kori bole nadibi, juntu pora apuni khan ke paap pora bachai diya laga dinte daag dise. Sob tita khan, biya pa-a, khong, hala, aru gali diya khan apnikhan pora hatai dibi, sob biya laga bhabona khan. Aru ekjon-ekjon ke morom koribi, norom mon rakhibi, maph koribi, jineka Isor pora Khrista dwara apnikhan ke maph korise.
Mota khan, nijor laga maiki ke morom koribi, aru taikhan logote mon tita kori kene nathakibi.
Khristan Porial Laga Hukum
Maiki khan, nijor mota logote bhal pora thakibi, etu he Probhu usorte thik ase. Mota khan, nijor laga maiki ke morom koribi, aru taikhan logote mon tita kori kene nathakibi.
Etu sob kotha khan pora bhi, morom thakibi, etu pora he sob to bhal bonai dibo.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Shadi kora to sob manu pora sonman koribi, aru shadi laga bisna to sapha rakhibi, kelemane Isor pora bebichari kaam kora manu khan ke bisar koribo.
Kintu Moi tumikhan ke koidi ase, jun manu ekjon mahila ke biya kaam kori bole bhabi loi, tai mon bhitor te bebichar kori loise.
Kintu Moi tumikhan ke etu koidi ase, jun mota dusra maiki logote bebichar kori bole tai laga maiki ke chari diye, taike bebichari maiki bonai di ase. Aru jun manu pora etu chari diye maiki ke shadi koribo, tai bhi bebichar kori loise.
Eneka pora taikhan aru duita nohoi, hoile bhi ekta sharir hoijai. Etu nimite Isor ki eke logote milai dise, manu khan etu ke alag na koribi."
Mota pora maiki ki bhal lage etu koribi: aru maiki bhi mota logote eneka koribi. Maiki to tai laga nijor gaw uporte adhikar nai, hoile bhi mota laga adhikar ase: aru eneka nisena mota bhi tai laga nijor gaw uporte adhikar nai, hoile bhi maiki laga adhikar ase.
Ekjon-ekjon ke mana na koribi, ekta homoi nimite hoile monjur hoi kene thakibi, titia apnikhan nijor nimite prathana te mon dibole paribo; aru etu piche eke logote ahibi, titia Saitan pora apnikhan ke porikha nakoribo, apnikhan nijor pora nijorke rukhabole napara nimite.
Aru shadi kora khan ke ami koi ase, etiya bhi ami nohoi, hoilebi Probhu koi ase, ekjon maiki tai laga mota ke chari kene jabole nalage (kintu aru tai chari kene jaise koile, taike shadi nakori kene thaki bole dibi, nahoile tai laga mota logote wapas mili bole dibi), aru mota bhi tai laga maiki ke chari bole nadibi. Hoile bhi dusra khan sobke- Moi pora koi ase, Probhu pora nohoi- kunba bhai laga maiki ase jun biswasi nohoi, aru tai duijon thaki bole mon ase koile, tai to maiki ke chari bole nalage.
Bebichari kaam khan pora dur polai jabi! Sob paap juntu ekjon manu pora kore etu to gaw bahar te kora ase, kintu bebichari kora paap kaam to nijor gaw ke paap kori diye.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Etu nisena, shadi kora mota khan nijor maiki logote mon mili kene thaki bhi, aru taikhan komjur ase koi kene bhal pora sabi. Apuni taike sonman dibi aru jibon te asirbad ana ekjon ase koi kene tai logote bhal pora thakibi. Eneka korile apuni laga prathana te kitia bhi digdar nahobo.
Nijor nimite te bhabona kori kene kaam nokoribi. Kintu chutu hoi kene dusra khan ke nijor pora bhi bisi bhal bhabibi. Nijor pora ki bhal pai etu nokoribi, kintu dusra pora ki bhal pai ase, etu bhi sabi.
Sabi, ta te kunbi kunba manu ke biya kaam nimite biya wapas dibole nadibi, kintu hodai, juntu bhal ase etu he koribi, nijor nimite bhi aru sob nimite bhi.
Jivit Isor Laga Mondoli
Apuni khan biswas nakora khan logote eke hoi kene namilibi. Kilekoile dhormikta te thaka khan aru niyom nathaka khan logot ki mili bole ase? Aru puhor to andhar logot ki mili bole paribo?
Morom to rukhibole pare aru norom ase; morom to suku najule; morom to phutani nadikhai, etu khong nohoi. Etu khechera nakore, etu nijor nimite nabisare, etu joldi ghusa nauthe, etu golti khan ke monte narakhe. Etu adharmik kaam khan te khushi nakore, hoilebi hosa te khushi kore. Etu sobke dhorjo kori bole pare, sob te biswas rakhe, sob asha rakhe, dukh digdar te dhorjo kori bole pare.