O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Na gweye mbigalo, mnogele mtwanzi wako kamba vija Kilisto viyawanogele wanhu wamtogole heyo na kukiilava mwenyego sama yao.
Na kila mbigalo yamnogele mtwanzi wake kamba voyolunogela lukuli lwake. Munhu yomnogela mtwanzi wake kokiinogela mwenyego.
Na kila mbigalo yamnogele mtwanzi wake kamba voyolunogela lukuli lwake. Munhu yomnogela mtwanzi wake kokiinogela mwenyego. Kwavija haduhu munhu yoyose yolwihila lukuli lwake, ila kolugwaa mandia na kulutendela vululonda, kamba Kilisto voyowatendela wanhu wamtogole heyo,
Ila kila munhu mmwanza wenu kolondigwa yamnogele mtwanzi wake kamba viyokinogela mwenyego, na mtwanzi kolondigwa yamuhishimile mbigalo wake.
Avo, kila munhu mmwanza wenu yaleke uvwizi na yalonge kweli ha miyage, kwavija tweye tose twa vipindi va lukuli lumwe. Kamba muhawa na lusango, sambimtende vilozo. Zua sambidiswe kuno mng’hali na lusango. Sambimumgwelele Mwenembago nafasi. Awo wose wokwiba waleke ubavi wao, ila wasang’hanike ng’hani na makono gao wenyego, giladi wapate kinhu cha kumgwaa mkumbulu. Milomo yenu sambiilave mbuli zihile, ila mbuli zinogile sama ya kuwazenga wanhu wayagwe mnhamanila, kulingana na vija vowolonda, giladi waja wotegeleza wagangamizwe. Sambimumgele giogio Loho wa Mulungu, kwavija Loho ija iyo utango wa Mulungu wikigwe kumwenu kulagusa kamba mweye mwa wanhu zake mbaka zua dija Mulungu vondayawakombole. Segezeni usungu wose, lusango lose, nyangi zose, na kuilonga vihile kose, hamoja na kuilondela gehile. Muwe na mioyo inogile na kwiyonela bazi wenyego kwa wenyego, na kila munhu yamgele kumgongo miyage kamba vija Mulungu viyawagelile mweye kumgongo kubitila Kilisto.
Kila mbigalo yamnogele mtwanzi wake na sambiyamkomhokele.
Ukazi wa Wanhu Wamtogole Kilisto
Kila mtwanzi yawe mwende ha mbigalo wake, kwavija vino vivo vilondigwa kutendigwa na wanhu wamtogole Kilisto.
Kila mbigalo yamnogele mtwanzi wake na sambiyamkomhokele.
Uhaleka gano gose, ivazeni noge ajo divifunga hamoja vinhu vino vose muuhamoja wa kweli.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Kuisola na kuhishimilwe na wanhu wose, na watwanzi sambiwawe vizenzeleganye ha wambigalo zao, na wambigalo vivija, kwavija Mulungu kowatagusa wagoni na wanhu wose washalati.
Ila nie nowalongela, munhu yoyose yomulola mtwanzi mkumsulukila, kesha kutenda nayo ugoni mmoyo wake.
Ila nie nowalongela kamba, munhu yoyose yomwasa mtwanzi wake, ila tu sama ya kilamso cha ugoni, komtenda mtwanzi hiyo yawe mgoni, na munhu yoyose yomsola mtwanzi hiyo kotenda ugoni.
Avo sio wabili, ila lukuli lumwe. Kwavija kiyalumbile Mulungu, haduhu munhu yondayakimamazule."
Mbigalo yamtendele mwehe wake gaja goyolondigwa kutendeligwa mng’anda, na vivija mwehe yatende vivo ha mbigalo wake. Mwehe kabule udaho mulukuli lwake mwenyego, ila mbigalo wake, vivija mbigalo kabule udaho mulukuli lwake mwenyego, ila mwehe wake.
Sambimuiime, ila kamba muitogolela kwika kipigiti kiguhi cha kuinega giladi mpate kutambika, abaho m’bwele hamoja kabili, giladi Mwenembago sambiyawengize m’vitega sama ya kuhumwa kuizuila.
Mwa wanhu wasolile ama wasoligwe, nowagwelela ndagizi ino, sio ndagizi yangu ila ndagizi ya Mndewa kamba, mwehe sambiyamwase mbigalo wake, ila kamba yahamwasa, kolondigwa yakale bila kusoligwa, ama yabwezigwe kumzengo na mbigalo wake. Na mbigalo sambiyamwase mwehe wake.
Mwa wasigale nolonga vino, hano nolonga nie sio Mndewa, kamba mbigalo yamtogole Kilisto kana mwehe yalekile kumtogola Kilisto, na ija imwehe katogola kukala na heyo, sambiyamwase.
Ukimbileni ugoni. Vilozo vose viyagwe voyotenda munhu va hanze ya lukuli lwake, ila munhu yotenda ugoni koloza mulukuli lwake mwenyego.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Vivija na mweye wambigalo, kaleni na watwanzi zenu na nzewele, wahishimileni kamba wanhu walibule mhiko na kamba wahazi hamoja na mweye wa nhunza ya ugima, giladi kinhu chochose sambikikikiwize nhambiko zenu.
Sama ya kilamso kino mbigalo kowaleka tataake na mamaake na kuilumba na mtwanzi wake, na hewo wowa lukuli lumwe.
Sambimtende mbuli yoyose mkuinogeza mioyo yenu iiyeka ama mkuitopa bule, ila muihunganikile mkuwagelegeza waenu wanoga kubanza mweye wenyego. Kila munhu mmwanza wenu sambiyalole gaja gamnogele heyo, ila vivija yalole gaja gowonogela na wayage.
Teganyeni, munhu yoyose sambiyalihe dihile kwa dihile, ila mazua gose zahileni kukiitendela ganogile wenyego kwa wenyego na hata wanhu wayagwe.
Nzuma ya Kuleka Kuilumba na Wamhazi
Sambimuilumbe hamoja na Wamhazi. Kwavija hana umbwiga ulihi mwa wanhu walibule uzenzeleganye na waja wene uzenzeleganye? Ama ziza na mulangaza vodahikaze kukala hamoja?
Noge domtenda munhu yazaganye, yawe na moyo unogile, sambiyawe na migongo, sambiyawe na matopa, sambiyawe na kibuli, sambiyazahile mbuli zake mwenyego, sambiyone lusango himahima, sambiyalundize gehile. Noge hadimtenda munhu yadeng’helele gehile, ila domtenda munhu yadeng’helele mbuli ya kweli. Noge domtenda munhu sambiyadonhe, sambiyaileke nhamanila, yatamanile mbuli zose, na yazaganye mbuli zose.