O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Na mwenga angwana, muapale ahumbu bhenu handa bhula Kilisto pakaapala bhandu bhaanhyubhalila, kakilibhuha mwene ubhumi kwakya ngwemuko.
Basi, angwana bhangunoghwa kuapala ahumbu bhabhe handa mibhili yabhe bhene. Ywakampala nhumbu ghwake kangulipala mwene.
Basi, angwana bhangunoghwa kuapala ahumbu bhabhe handa mibhili yabhe bhene. Ywakampala nhumbu ghwake kangulipala mwene. Kahone mundu yohele yunakughukalaliha mmili ghwake mwene, ngati kanguulyegheha na kuubhika nyanyi, handa Kilisto pakaatendela maha bhala bhaanhyubhalila.
Peni kila nngwana yingunkwiliha kampale nhumbu ywake handa pakalipala mwene. Na nhumbu kangukwilihwa kanyitikile nngwana ghwake.
Kya habho, nneke uhwangi. Kila yumu kangunoghwa kung’ombela hoto nnyake, kiyaha kila yumu mu twenga ndo kibhungo kya mmili ghumu ghwa Kilisto. Pannyaghabhalana, nkoteke kuyitikila kiyaghabhu kyenu kibhayambuhe ntende ulemwa, na nkotoke kutama na kiyaghabhu leghileghi tipi. Nkotoke kunpegha Nchipila ng’ebhu ya kuahotola. Ywakabheghite kanguyibha, kaleke kuyibha kangi, ngati kayande kutenda lihengo lya maha, kamokole kubhegha na kilibhi kya kuntangatila mundu kapukwa. Malagho mahakata ghakotoke kuyihwanika munkati yenu, ngati nnongele milando ya maha ya kuatangatila na kubhatengelehea bhala bhaayihwa. Nkotoke kuntenda Nhuki ghwa Chapanga kayaghabhale, mana Nhuki aywo ndo mango ya Chapanga kwa mwenga, ghuubhoneha kukita mwenga ndo bhandu bhake, mbaka mulinjubha lila Chapanga pakatulopoha. Basi, nneke yomo kulihokonyola, kuyaghabhala, kukalala na makyobho na maligho ghakotoke kubhegha kwa mwenga, na nneke kila uhokelo. Ntendelande gha maha na kubhonelana luhungu, kila yumu na kannekekehe nnyake, handa Chapanga pakaalekekehite mwenga kwa njila ya Kilisto.
Na mwenga angwana, mubhapale ahumbu bhenu, na nkotoke kubhegha akalipa kwa bhombe.
Matamilo gha maha mu nyuma hya akilisto
Mwenga ahumbu, mubhayitikile angwana bhenu, kiyaha ndo pakapala Bambo.
Na mwenga angwana, mubhapale ahumbu bhenu, na nkotoke kubhegha akalipa kwa bhombe.
Nnando nkulu kupitingana agho ghoha, mughughungile upalo, kiyaha upalo ghungaalunganiha bhandu bhoha mu ghughumo ghwa hoto.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Kutolana kungupalwa kuhokamilwa na bhandu bhoha, na shaliya yaki yitendekwe kwa kuhyubhalika. Kiyaha Chapanga kataatosa atyahe na angongola.
Peni nenga nunguaghombela kukita, mundu ywohele ywakannolekeha nndala kwa uhongo ghwa kutyaha naywo, aywo katyaha kala mumwoyo ghwake.
Peni nenga nunguaghombela, mundu kangunoghwa ng’obhe kunneka nhumbu ywake kwa uhokelo ghwohele, pangi kwa kutenda utyahe, na mundu ywakanneka nhumbu ghwake kwa uhokelo ghwohele ghula, kanguntenda kabheghe ntyahe. Na yula ywakantolela nndala ywakalekitwe, kangutenda utyahe."
Habhu, abho chepa abhili kangi, ngati abhegha mmili ghumu. Kya abhu kila kyakakilungite Chapanga, mundu kakotoke kughabhaniha."
Nngwana kantendele nhumbu ghwake handa muyinoghwa, naywo nhumbu kantendele nngwana ghwake handa muyinoghwa. Nhumbu kabhegha ng’ombe na utabhala ghwa mmili ghwake mwene, ngati nngwana ghwake kabhegha utabhala, hilahila na nngwana kabhegha ng’ombe na utabhala kwa mmili ghwake mwene, ngati nhumbu ghwake kabhegha naghwo utabhala.
Nkotoke kulemekehana, ngati handa maayitikilana kutenda habhu kwa nndaluko ghwa mandina, ngati mmokole ng’ebu ya maha ya kuyupa. Kamu, mmuyilane kangi, ngati Nchipila kakotoke kubhang’eha kubhukana na uyoyoho ghwenu.
Kwa bhala bhaatolanite kala, megha na ngwilikiho na chepa ya nenga ngati ndo ya Bambo. Nhumbu kakotoke kulekana na nngwana ghwake. Peni handa pakalekana naywo, hino katame kyangali kutolelwa kangi, handa chepa kalinganihwe malobhe na nngwana ghwake na abhuyilane. Nngwana naywo kakotoke kunneka nhumbu ghwake. Peni kwa bhandu bhangi nunguaghombela habhu, nungulongela nenga, chepa Bambo. Handa mundu ywakanhyubhalila Kilisito kabhegha na nhumbu ywanganhyubhalila Kilisito, na aywo nhumbu kanguyikitila kutama papamu naywo, kakotoke kunneka.
Nhepetuke yomo na utyahe. Ulemwa ghungi ghwoha mundu kangutenda panji ya mmili ghwake, peni ntyahe kangutenda ulemwa mummili ghwake mwene.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Ubhwabhuabhu mwenga maalume, ntame na ahumbu bhenu kwa njila ya malango pammanya kukita bhombe ndo ayoyobhalo kupitingana mwenga na kya habhu mubhatendele uhokamo. Mana nabho bhubho bhaakingama lilumbo lya ulami papamu na mwenga lyakapala kubhapegha Chapanga. Ntende habhu ngati mayupo ghenu ghakotoke kukanikihwa na kilibhi kyohele.
Nkotoke kutenda kyohele kwa likaho lya kulikweha ebu kuliloka, ngati muyitende mihalo yoha kwa kulihuluha, na kila mundu kammone nnyake kabhegha ghwa maha kupitingana mwene. Kakotoke kubhegha mundu mu mwenga yunakughayila milando ya mwene ghweka, ngati kila mundu kaghaayile milando ya kuatangatila bhangi.
Mulindakile mundu ywohele kakotoke kubhuyiha uhakata kwa uhakata, peni hwacho yenu yibhe kutendelana gha maha mu manjuha ghoha na kubhatendela gha maha bhandu bhoha.
Nkotoke kulihanga na bhandu bhangammanya Chapanga
Nkotoke kulihanga na bhandu bhanganhyubhalila Chapanga, Bhuli, umaha na uhakata hyahotola kutatama papamu? Ebu lubhwelu na lubhindu hyahotola kutama papamu?
Yuna upalo kangulimbilila na kangutangatila na yuna upalo kabhegha ng’obhe na tama, yunaupalo kanguliloka ng’obhe hangi kabhegha ng’obhe na hyeta. Yuna upalo kanguahokamo bhangi, yuna upalo kangupalaha ng’obhe ghake mwene, kangi yunaupalo kangulopokela ng’obhe kukalala, kangukulungwa ng’obhe mahakata, yuna upalo kanguyeleha ng’obhe uhakata, ngati kanguyelela papamu na hoto. Mundu yuna upalo kangutunyuka ng’obhe mwoyo, kangulimbilila na manjubha ghoha kanguleka ng’obhe kanguhyubhalila, kangudumbila ghoha na kanguhotola ghoha.