O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
apara nca he puru.saa.h, yuuya.m khrii.s.ta iva svasvayo.sitsu priiyadhva.m|
tasmaat svatanuvat svayo.siti premakara.na.m puru.sasyocita.m, yena svayo.siti prema kriyate tenaatmaprema kriyate|
tasmaat svatanuvat svayo.siti premakara.na.m puru.sasyocita.m, yena svayo.siti prema kriyate tenaatmaprema kriyate|
ko.api kadaapi na svakiiyaa.m tanum .rtiiyitavaan kintu sarvve taa.m vibhrati pu.s.nanti ca| khrii.s.to.api samiti.m prati tadeva karoti,
ataeva yu.smaakam ekaiko jana aatmavat svayo.siti priiyataa.m bhaaryyaapi svaamina.m samaadarttu.m yatataa.m|
ato yuuya.m sarvve mithyaakathana.m parityajya samiipavaasibhi.h saha satyaalaapa.m kuruta yato vaya.m parasparam a"ngapratya"ngaa bhavaama.h|
apara.m krodhe jaate paapa.m maa kurudhvam, a"saante yu.smaaka.m ro.sesuuryyo.asta.m na gacchatu|
apara.m "sayataane sthaana.m maa datta|
cora.h puna"scairyya.m na karotu kintu diinaaya daane saamarthya.m yajjaayate tadartha.m svakaraabhyaa.m sadv.rttyaa pari"srama.m karotu|
apara.m yu.smaaka.m vadanebhya.h ko.api kadaalaapo na nirgacchatu, kintu yena "sroturupakaaro jaayate taad.r"sa.h prayojaniiyani.s.thaayai phaladaayaka aalaapo yu.smaaka.m bhavatu|
apara nca yuuya.m muktidinaparyyantam ii"svarasya yena pavitre.naatmanaa mudrayaa"nkitaa abhavata ta.m "sokaanvita.m maa kuruta|
apara.m ka.tuvaakya.m ro.sa.h ko.sa.h kalaho nindaa sarvvavidhadve.sa"scaitaani yu.smaaka.m madhyaad duuriibhavantu|
yuuya.m paraspara.m hitai.si.na.h komalaanta.hkara.naa"sca bhavata| aparam ii"svara.h khrii.s.tena yadvad yu.smaaka.m do.saan k.samitavaan tadvad yuuyamapi paraspara.m k.samadhva.m|
he svaamina.h, yuuya.m bhaaryyaasu priiyadhva.m taa.h prati paru.saalaapa.m maa kurudhva.m|
he yo.sita.h, yuuya.m svaaminaa.m va"syaa bhavata yatastadeva prabhave rocate|
he svaamina.h, yuuya.m bhaaryyaasu priiyadhva.m taa.h prati paru.saalaapa.m maa kurudhva.m|
vi"se.sata.h siddhijanakena premabandhanena baddhaa bhavata|
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
vivaaha.h sarvve.saa.m samiipe sammaanitavyastadiiya"sayyaa ca "suci.h kintu ve"syaagaamina.h paaradaarikaa"sce"svare.na da.n.dayi.syante|
kintvaha.m yu.smaan vadaami, yadi ka"scit kaamata.h kaa ncana yo.sita.m pa"syati, tarhi sa manasaa tadaiva vyabhicaritavaan|
kintvaha.m yu.smaan vyaaharaami, vyabhicaarado.se na jaate yadi ka"scin nijajaayaa.m parityajati, tarhi sa taa.m vyabhicaarayati; ya"sca taa.m tyaktaa.m striya.m vivahati, sopi vyabhicarati|
atastau puna rna dvau tayorekaa"ngatva.m jaata.m, ii"svare.na yacca samayujyata, manujo na tad bhindyaat|
bhaaryyaayai bhartraa yadyad vitara.niiya.m tad vitiiryyataa.m tadvad bhartre.api bhaaryyayaa vitara.niiya.m vitiiryyataa.m|
bhaaryyaayaa.h svadehe svatva.m naasti bharttureva, tadvad bhartturapi svadehe svatva.m naasti bhaaryyaayaa eva|
upo.sa.napraarthanayo.h sevanaartham ekamantra.naanaa.m yu.smaaka.m kiyatkaala.m yaavad yaa p.rthaksthiti rbhavati tadanyo vicchedo yu.smanmadhye na bhavatu, tata.h param indriyaa.naam adhairyyaat "sayataan yad yu.smaan pariik.saa.m na nayet tadartha.m punarekatra milata|
ye ca k.rtavivaahaaste mayaa nahi prabhunaivaitad aaj naapyante|
bhaaryyaa bhartt.rta.h p.rthak na bhavatu| yadi vaa p.rthagbhuutaa syaat tarhi nirvivaahaa ti.s.thatu sviiyapatinaa vaa sandadhaatu bharttaapi bhaaryyaa.m na tyajatu|
itaraan janaan prati prabhu rna braviiti kintvaha.m braviimi; kasyacid bhraaturyo.sid avi"svaasinii satyapi yadi tena sahavaase tu.syati tarhi saa tena na tyajyataa.m|
maanavaa yaanyanyaani kalu.saa.ni kurvvate taani vapu rna samaavi"santi kintu vyabhicaari.naa svavigrahasya viruddha.m kalma.sa.m kriyate|
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
he puru.saa.h, yuuya.m j naanato durbbalatarabhaajanairiva yo.sidbhi.h sahavaasa.m kuruta, ekasya jiivanavarasya sahabhaaginiibhyataabhya.h samaadara.m vitarata ca na ced yu.smaaka.m praarthanaanaa.m baadhaa jani.syate|
virodhaad darpaad vaa kimapi maa kuruta kintu namratayaa svebhyo.aparaan vi"si.s.taan manyadhva.m|
kevalam aatmahitaaya na ce.s.tamaanaa.h parahitaayaapi ce.s.tadhva.m|
apara.m kamapi pratyani.s.tasya phalam ani.s.ta.m kenaapi yanna kriyeta tadartha.m saavadhaanaa bhavata, kintu paraspara.m sarvvaan maanavaa.m"sca prati nitya.m hitaacaari.no bhavata|
aparam apratyayibhi.h saarddha.m yuuyam ekayuge baddhaa maa bhuuta, yasmaad dharmmaadharmmayo.h ka.h sambandho.asti? timire.na sarddha.m prabhaayaa vaa kaa tulanaasti?
prema cirasahi.s.nu hitai.si ca, prema nirdve.sam a"sa.tha.m nirgarvva nca|
apara.m tat kutsita.m naacarati, aatmace.s.taa.m na kurute sahasaa na krudhyati paraani.s.ta.m na cintayati,
adharmme na tu.syati satya eva santu.syati|
tat sarvva.m titik.sate sarvvatra vi"svasiti sarvvatra bhadra.m pratiik.sate sarvva.m sahate ca|