O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Numbe mmanganyanji mmanabhalume, mwaapinganje ashaakongo bhenunji, malinga na bhalabho a Kilishitu shibhalipinjile likanisha, nikwiishoya mbepei kwa ligongo lyakwe.
Bhai, bhanabhalume bhanaapinjikwanga kwaapinganga ashaakongo bhabhonji malinga iilu yabhonji ashayenenji. Pabha akumpinga nkagwe, anakwiipinga nnyene.
Bhai, bhanabhalume bhanaapinjikwanga kwaapinganga ashaakongo bhabhonji malinga iilu yabhonji ashayenenji. Pabha akumpinga nkagwe, anakwiipinga nnyene. Jwakwapi mundu akushishima shiilu shakwe, ikabhe anakushiliya na kushigoya na kushiwasha. Mbuti nabhalabho a Kilishitu shibhakuti kulitendela likanisha,
Kwa nneyo kila jwannume ampinje nkagwe malinga shiikupinjikwa na wala jwankongwe analeshe kunkunda mmbujegwe kwa indu yowe.
Bhai nnekanje unami, mmeleketanje ya kweli kila mundu naka mundu mwine, pabha kila mundu anakunkulupalila mwine. Nnalebhanje kwa ligongo lya nnjimwa, lyubha linatitimile nnjimwa ikanabhe kunshokanga. Wala nnanng’ugulilanje Lishetani nnango. Nngwii anajibhe kabhili, ikabhe, akamule liengo lyambone kwa mashili gakwe nnyene, nkupinga akole shindu sha kunngabhila nkulaga. Lilobhe lyolyowe lyangali lya mmbone linakoposhe nkang’wa yenunji, ikabhe lilobhe lyambone lya kumpwaa nkulaga, nkupinga lyaapanganje nema bhakulipilikananga.
Wala nnammulayanje kuinjika Mbumu jwa Ukonjelo, pabha jwenejo ni lulembo lwa a Nnungu lunnembwilwenje lubhe shilangulo shenunji mpaka lyubha lya gombolwa. Bhai, nnekanje magongo na nnjimwa na tumbala na njobhela na matukano, nkali yangali ya mmbone inapilikanishe kwenu mmanganya. Nkolanje ntima gwa mmbone na gwa bhonelana shiya, nneshelelananje mmashayenenji, kila mundu anneshelele nnjakwe malinga a Nnungu shibhanneshelelenje mmanganyanji kupitila a Kilishitu.
Mmanabhalume nnombilenje, mwaapinganje ashakongo bhenunji, nnakolanje nngomo.
Majiganyo ga Nndamo ja Nnikaja
Mmandonyanji mwaapilikanilanje ashimbuje bhenunji, nneyo ni shibhapinga Bhakulungwa. Mmanabhalume nnombilenje, mwaapinganje ashakongo bhenunji, nnakolanje nngomo.
Kupunda gene gowego, ntamangananje nkupingana, pabha kupingana kunalundanya indu yowe nibha shindu shimo sha nng’ilimila.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Ndoa jiishimiwe na bhandu bhowe, inapagwe ya labhalabha, mundu na nkagwe bhanatendebhukane, pabha a Nnungu shibhaaukumulanje bhowe bha labhalabha na bha utwai.
Ikabheje nne ngunakummalanjilanga, jojowe akunnola jwankongwe kwa kunnokolila, muntima gwakwe alebhelebhe najo.
Ikabheje nne ngunakummalanjilanga, akumpa nkagwe talaka ikabhe kwa ligongo lya labhalabha, anakuntenda alabhelabhe, naka jwannume annombaga jwankongwe aleshilwe na ambujegwe, analabhalabha.
Kwa nneyo, bhanganyabho nngabha bhabhili kabhili, ikabhe shiilu shimo. Bhai, shibhalundikenye a Nnungu, mundu analekanye."
Jwannume antendele nkagwe malinga shiikupinjikwa, naka jwankongwe nneyo peyo, antendele mmbujegwe malinga shiikupinjikwa. Jwankongwe jwangali lilobhe kwa shiilu shakwe, ikabhe ambujegwe, nneyo peyo jwannume jwangali lilobhe kwa shiilu shakwe, ikabhe akagwe.
Nnannjime nnjenu shili shakwe, ikabhe ntendanje nneyo kwa patana kwa malanga gashoko, nkupinga mpatanje malanga ga kwaajuga a Nnungu. Kungai nkatamangananje pamo kabhili, nkupinga Lishetani ananninganje kwa ligongo lya ungakola mashili gwenunji.
Bhalombilenje bhala ngunakwaapanganga amuli, ikabheje nngabha nne, ikabhe Bhakulungwa, jwankongwe analekane naka mbujegwe, ikabheje alekanaga, bhai, analombwe eu aelewane na ambujegwe. Na jwannume anampe talaka nkagwe.
Kubhananji bhala, nne, nngabha Bhakulungwa, nguti nnei, ibhaga apali jwannume nkilishitu, akwete jwankongwe akanabhe kulupalila, na jwalakwe jwankongwejo akundile tama nabho, anaaleshe.
Mwiepuyanje na labhalabha. Yambi ina yowe mundu anatenda palanga shiilu, ikabheje alabhalabha jula anatenda shambi nshiilu shakwe nnyene
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Numbe mmashileunji nnombilenje, nkolanje lunda punkutamangana na ashaakongobhenunji, nnapinjikwanga mwaatetelesheyanje malinga iumbe yangali mashili, pabha mpinga poshelanga mboka ya gumi pamo, nkupinga kujuga Nnungu kwenunji kunaibhililwe.
Nnatendanje shindu shoshowe kwa taukangana eu kwa kwiipuna, ikabhe mwiitimalikanje mwaashayenenji, kila mundu annganishiye nnjakwe kuti jwa mmbone kupunda nnyene. Mundu analoleye pwaida jakwe nnyene, ikabhe na pwaida ja ashaajakwenji.
Nnolanje, mundu jojowe anannipe nnjakwe yangali ya mmbone, ikabhe ntendelananje uguja mwaashayenenji na kubhandu bhowe.
Nnalundananje na Bhakaakulupalilanga
Nnapangananje mbwiga na bhandunji bhakakwakulupalilanga a Kilishitu. Bhuli, aki na yangali ya mmbone inapatana? Shilangaya na lubhindu inatama pamo?
Apingana na bhandu, anakwiipililila, na anakola uguja, na jwangali lupimililo, na akakwiipuna na wala jwangali miinjili. Apingana na bhandu, anakwiitimalika na akaloleya pwaida jakwe nnyene, wala akatumbala na akakwiibhika muntima yangali ya mmbone, akaangalila yangali ya mmbone, ikabhe anaangalila ili ya kweli. Apingana na bhandu akaatotoshela, akaaleka kulupalila na anakwiipililila yowe.