O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Bayakala, zolenu bakhetu benu bwosu kázola Kidisitu Dibundu, amana wáditambika yandi meni kikuma kya dyawu;
Phila mosi ni bayakala bafweti zola bakhetu ba bawu bwosu bisi zola lutu lwa bawu meni. Wuna wazola mukhetu wandi, kisi dizola yandi meni.
Phila mosi ni bayakala bafweti zola bakhetu ba bawu bwosu bisi zola lutu lwa bawu meni. Wuna wazola mukhetu wandi, kisi dizola yandi meni. Kikuma heku mutu wábwisa kedi lutu lwa yandi meni; kaasi kisilwa disa amana kisilwa yidika, bwosu kisibwa sala Kidisitu kikuma kya Dibundu,
Yi hakana ni, mosi-mosi wa benu kazola mukhetu wandi hanga yandi meni, amana mukhetu kazitisa yakala dyandi.
Yihana ni, yambulenu bukamvi! Amana kosu mutu kazonza yi kyedika kwena khunda wandi, mukuma betu boosu thwenina bitini bya lutu lumosi. Ho lwakala mu khabu, lusumukaku; lunimbaku yi khabu. Lumuhekaku kizika kiphidi-mutu. Mwifi kayibaku hika, kaasi kadihana mu kusala yandi-meni yi moku mandi; ndangu kamona kima kina kasadisila wuna wenina mu phasi. Ka ndinga yimosi ku ya mbi yalubuka muna munwa myenu, kaasi zonzakenu lwesi ndinga za bukheti, zina zisi tunga amana zisi hana khenda kwena babana babati yuka. Lumuyukisaku kyadi Kitembu Kyatoma wuna kalunamika Nzambi hanga kidimbu kikuma kya kilumbu kya luhulusu lwa tsuka. Katulenu mambu moosu ma khadi mana báluhanga, nganzi, khabu, bikalu, ngusi yi mbi za phila yosu. Kalenu bukheti benu yi benu, kalenu yi mbundu ya kyadi; amana dilolulenu benu yi benu bwosu kálulolula Nzambi mwena Kidisitu.
Bayala, zolenu bakhetu benu, amana lulubulaku phisi kwena bawu.
Bayakala yi bakhetu, bana yi bibuti
Bakhetu, lemvukenu kwena bayakala benu, bwosu bulombini mwena Pfumu.
Bayala, zolenu bakhetu benu, amana lulubulaku phisi kwena bawu.
Amana hana thandu ya byosu, vwatenu lungongu, mukuma lwenina zita dya mukwandi dya kikhunda.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Mutu wosu kazitisalwa longu amana basumunayoku thangi ya longu. Nzambi kafúndisa bita-mbongi yi bakwa kisanda.
Kaasi meni, yiluzimbwadi: Wosu wuna watála mukhetu wa ngani mu phila ya kumukemba, wuti kedi mbongi yi yandi muna mbundu yandi.
Kaasi meni, yiluzimbwadi: Wosu wuna wayámbula mukhetu wandi, katula kusala kindumba, wumukitudi kita kya mbongi, amana wuna wakwéla mukhetu bayambudi ku longu, yandi phi mbongi kisi ta.»
Ndangu bakálaku hika bodi, kaasi mutu mosi. Disongidila, kina kakasi Nzambi, mutu kahambulaku.»
Mboti yakala kalungisa kiyeka kyandi kwena mukhetu wandi, mukhetu phi kahanga mutindu wumosi kwena yakala dyandi. Mukhetu kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya yakala dyandi; mutindu wumosi kwena yakala, kafwaniku katambula lukanu kikuma kya lutu lwandi: lutu lwandi lwenina kikuma kya mukhetu wandi.
Ludikandaku thangi mukhetu yi yakala, akolu ni, lwayukana benu bodi, amana phi mu tangwa dya khunda ndangu lwadihana mu lombilu; kunima luvutwakidi luzingu lwenu lwa thangi; kondilo, mu kukonda kwa kwatakani, lwadiyambwadila nana mu bimeka bya Satana.
Kwena babana bákwela kedi, kizila kimosi yibaheki –kitukiku kwena Pfumu– mukhetu kadihambulaku yi yakala dyandi. Ho ni wádihambula, kazinga bwabuna konda yakala, kondilo badilomba mulemvu yi yakala dyandi; amana yakala kamuyambwadilaku mukhetu wandi.
Kwena batu bahika, nzimbudini –meni-meni, matukiku kwena Pfumu– : ho ni yakala wenina mukwikidi kakala yi mukhetu wukondi kala mukwikidi, amana ho mukhetu katambwasa ni bazingaka kaka yi yandi, kamukukwasaku;
Tinenu mbongi! Disumu dyosu kisi hola mutu ku phenza ya lutu disi kala; kaasi wuna wudilambudini ku kindumba, lutu lwa yandi-meni kisi sumuna.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Luhangaku kima mu mbundu ya kuwila, kondilo mu kusanda lukumu lwa phamba-phamba kaasi mu kudikulumunaka, lwamonaka bakwenu hanga mbedi ni baluhitini benu. Ka mutu ku kasandaka lwesi muluta wa yandi meni, kaasi kosu mutu kabanzilaka phi bakwawu.
Tekikenu matu ni mutu kavutulaku mbela kwena mukwawu; kaasi sandakenu kosu tangwa mu kuhangaka bukheti, benu yi benu yi kwena mutu wosu.
Lungongu lwenina sipha dya mbundu, lungongu lwisi sadisa, lweku yi kiphala, lungongu lwisiku ditsikisa, lweku yi kinaka; lungongu lwisiku hanga mambu ma tsoni, lweku yi bwimi, lwisiku yuka khabu, lweku yi tsita. Lungongu lwisiku sephila yi kukonda kwa masonga, kaasi lwisi sephila kaka yi kyedika. Lungongu lwisi lolula mambu moosu, lwisi kwikila mambu moosu, lwisi sya kivuvu mu moosu, lwisi vibidila mu moosu.