8 But I say to the unmarried and to the widows, [that as a practical matter] it is good if they remain [single and entirely devoted to the Lord] *7:8 Some scholars believe Paul may have been a widower.as I am. 9 But if they do not have [sufficient] self-control, they should marry; for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.

10 But to the *7:10 Couples who are both believers.married [believers] I give instructions—not I, but the Lord—that the wife is not to separate from her husband, 11 (but even if she does leave him, let her remain single or else be *7:11 In reference to married Christians, Paul teaches that reconciliation is always preferable to separation or divorce and should be actively sought.reconciled to her husband) and that the husband should not leave his wife.