37 The one who has more ahavah (love) for a tata (papa) or a mama than for me10:37 Moshiach is not worthy of me,10:37 Moshiach and the one who has more ahavah (love) for a ben or a bat than me is not worthy of me. 38 The one who does not take up his etz shel mesiros nefesh (tree of self-sacrifice) and follow after me, is not worthy of me. 39 The one who has found his nefesh will lose it; the one who has lost his nefesh for my sake10:39 lemaan Moshiach will find it.