O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Namwe muwamale, muwanoghele wapinga wenu ka Kiristu pfawanoghele iwanu wose iwomtoghola mbaka kaulapfa ughima wake kwaajili yawo,
Pfipfila chila mmale yamnoghele mwehe wake ka pfayounoghela lukuli lwake mwenyegho. Imunu iyomnoghela mwehe wake kenoghela imwenyegho.
Pfipfila chila mmale yamnoghele mwehe wake ka pfayounoghela lukuli lwake mwenyegho. Imunu iyomnoghela mwehe wake kenoghela imwenyegho. Kuduhu imunu iyolwihila lukuli lwake, ila kolwang’itsa na kolulolesa, ka Kiristu naye pfayowatendela iwanu wose iwomtoghola,
Lekeni chila mmale yamnoghele mwehe wake ka pfayenoghela mwenyegho, naye mwehe yamuhulikitse mmale wake.
Apfo mleke kulonga ughutsu! Chila munu yalongese kwa miyaghe, kwaapfila twetwe wose twa pfilungo pfa lukuli lumwe. Mng’awa na maya, mleke kutoghola maya imlongotseni mtende nzambi, kuya mleke kukala ne maya mbaka litsuwa liswe, ili mleke kumwing’a Setani nyafwasi. Imunu iyang’ali yakwiba, yaleke kwiba keli, ila yasang’ane ng’onde inoghile kwa ghamoko ghake yapate ichinu chokuwagholela iwalihela chinu. Mleke kulonga mbuli tsihile, ila mlonge mbuli tsinoghile itsiwatsenga iwanu, ili mbuli tsamlonga tsiwapfile iwanu iwomuhulikani. Mleke kumghela usungu Ghumuhe Mwenzeluka we Imulungu, mana yeye ka chitango che Imulungu kuna mwemwe ka mwemwe mwa wanu wake, naye kolangusa ka litsuwa lyakutsa Imulungu katsomkombolani. Lelo mleke kuwa ne fondogholo, mleke kuwehila wanu wangi na mleke kuwa na maya na kwidamilila ne maligho. Ghehile ghose mghaleke! Lekeni muwe na moyo ghunoghile na mwiyonele libatsi, chila munu yamleghusile matotso miyaghe ka Imulungu pfamleghusileni tsinzambi kwa nzila ya Kiristu.
Namwe iwamale muwanoghele wehe wenu, mleke kuwa wakali kuna wawo.
Ughima wa sambi mne tsikaye
Mwemwe wehe, muwahulikitse iwamale wenu, apfo pfipfo pfayobama Imtwatsa.
Namwe iwamale muwanoghele wehe wenu, mleke kuwa wakali kuna wawo.
Kubita agha ghose, mwongetse unoghelo, kwaapfila unoghelo wakoha ghose mne umwe iutimile.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Iwanu iwekwelile wehulikitse, mmale au mwehe yaleke kuwasa ne imunu yungi. Imulungu katsowahigha waghoni na watsinzi.
Unwe ghamatsi gha chisima chako, ghamatsi igholawa mna imbwibwi yako. Heule ghamatsi gha tsimbwibwi tsako ghenele kutali, na ghamatsi gha ipfikolongo ghapwililike mnzila? Ghaleke ghawe ghako ghumwenyegho uliyeka, uleke kwihangila na wanu wangi. Imbwibwi yako ibalikighwe, umdeng’elele ipinga yumkwelile haung’ali msongolo. Ayo kanogha ka kongoni, ka dondolo, na ghamatombo ghake ghakudeng’eletse matsuwa ghose, ughoghighwe na ukukunda kwake. Mwanangu, heule ughoghighwa na pinga chiweghe? Heule ughahaghatila ghamatombo gha pinga mgheni?
Lekeni nene nomlongelani, munu wowose iyololesa ipinga kwa kutama, ayo mala katenda naye ughoni mmoyo mwake.
Lekeni nene nomlongelani, Munu wowose iyomleka imwehe wake, na imwehe wake ayo ng’atendile ughoni baye, komtenda yawe mghoni, na imunu iyomkwela ipinga ayo iyalekighwe apfo, naye kotenda ughoni.
Apfo ng’awatsakuwa weli keli baye, ila lukuli lumwe. Apfo chiyalumbile Imlungu, imunu yaleke kuchighola."
Immale yatende chayobamighwa kumtendela mwehe wake, na ipinga yatende chayobamighwa kumtendela immale wake. Lukuli lwa mwehe, si lwake yaliyeka bae, ila lwa immale wake pfipfila. Na lukuli lwa mmale si lwake yaliyeka bae ila lwa mwehe wake pfipfila.
Mleke kwiima, ila ka mwilaghana kwa ghamatsuwa chidogho, ili mdahe kukala kwa kumlomba Imulungu, kuya muyile keli ili Setani aleke kuwaghetsa kwaapfila ng’amdaha kududumila.
Kwa awala iwakwelighwe na iwakwelile noweng’a laghitso lino, kuya si langu bae ila lye Imtwatsa. Mwehe yaleke kwileka na mmale wake. Lekeni ang’atenda apfo, yakale bila ukukwelighwa, au yelamlitse ne immale wake. Naye immale aleke kumleka mwehe wake.
Kwa awala iwasighale nolonga pfino. Nene mwenyegho, si Imtwatsa bae. Ka immale kana mwehe ing’ayomtoghola Yesu, na mwehe ayo kotoghola kukala na mmale wake, mmale aleke kumleka mwehe wake.
Mkale kutali ne ughoni. Nzambi tsose tsimwenga itsitendighwa ng’atsilagha lukuli, lekeni mghoni kolutendela nzambi lukuli lwake.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Pfipfila namwe iwamale mkale ne iwapinga wenu aku mwomanya ka wawo wanyonge kubita mwemwe, apfo mleke kuwabetsa, muwatendele pfinoghile, kwaapfila mtsobokela nawo ghweko lya ughima lye Imulungu. Mng’atenda apfo kuduhu chinu ichitsoghoma aghala ighamlomba.
Apfo immale katsowaleka aba wake na mai wake, naye katselunga na mwehe wake, nawo watsakuwa lukuli lumwe.
Mleke kutenda chochose kwa kwishindana au kwa ukwighoda hela, muwe wenyepfale mwemwe kwa mwemwe na chila imunu yamwone myaghe kanogha kubita yeye imwenyegho. Chila imunu yaleke kulola chayobama yeye mwenyegho yaliheka, lekeni pfipfila alole chawobama iwanu wangi.
Ukale ghoya na mwehe wako yumkunda matsuwa ghose, mna matsuwa ghako gha ukudununzika, ghamatsuwa agho ghawing’ighwe na Imulungu mna isi aino, kwaapfila alyo lilyo lyawing’ighwe ahala haukala mgima, na ahala hauhenyeka kusang’ana tsing’onde tsako muisi.
Iyopata imwehe ayo kopata chinu chinoghile, naye kotogholighwa na IMNDEWA.
Mwalangitse imunu wowose aleke kumuyitsila miyaghe ghehile kwa ghehile, ila ghamatsuwa ghose mwitendele ghanoghile na pfipfila muwatendele iwanu wose ghanoghile.
Ka ng’ambama baye kumsang’anila IMNDEWA, lelo leloli aino msaghule yuhi yamutsomsang’anila, ka imilungu aila iwaisang’anile wahenga wenu akula kumwambu mwa ghumto Efurate, au imilungu ya Waamori mwamkala sambi mna isi yawo, lekeni nene na ng’anda yangu twomsang’anila IMNDEWA."
Mleke kwilunga ne iwanu ing’awomtoghola Imulungu
Mleke kwilunga ne iwanu wala ing’awomtoghola bae Imulungu, angu ghanoghile na ghehile ghodaha kukala hamwe? Ghumwanga na ichisi pfidahatse kukala hamwe?
Munu yane unoghelo kodudumila, kana libatsi, kahela chepfu, ng’etunya bae wala ng’eghoda bae. Imunu yane unoghelo kana mahala, ng’abamagha bae mbuli tsake mwenyegho, ng’asumkagha bae kona maya, kuya ng’ekagha bae fondogholo mmoyo. Imunu yane unoghelo ng’odeng’elelela bae ghehile, ila kodeng’elela ukweli. Yane unoghelo kodudumila ghamatsuwa ghose, kotoghola ghamatsuwa ghose, ghamatsuwa ghose kololela bila kwipfa, kodudumila ghamatsuwa ghose.