1 Atsakau į jūsų laišką. Gerai daro vyras, neliesdamas moters.
2 Tačiau ištvirkavimui išvengti kiekvienas teturi sau žmoną ir kiekviena sau vyrą.
3 Vyras teatlieka pareigą žmonai, o žmona vyrui.
4 Žmona neturi valios savo kūnui, bet vyras. Panašiai ir vyras neturi valios savo kūnui, bet žmona.
5 Nesitraukite vienas nuo kito, nebent abiems susitarus kuriam laikui, kad atsidėtumėte pasninkui ir maldai, paskui vėl būkite drauge, kad šėtonas negundytų jūsų nesusilaikymu.
6 Tai sakau leisdamas, o ne įsakydamas.
7 Norėčiau, kad visi žmonės būtų tokie kaip aš. Bet kiekvienas turi iš Dievo savo dovaną, vienas tokią, kitas kitokią.
8 Nesusituokusiems ir našlėms sakau: jie gerai darys, pasilikdami tokie kaip aš.
9 Bet, jei negali susilaikyti, tegul tuokiasi. Geriau tuoktis negu degti.
10 Susituokusiems įsakau ne aš, bet Viešpats, kad žmona nesiskirtų nuo vyro,
11 o jei atsiskirtų, kad liktų netekėjusi arba susitaikytų su vyru; taip pat ir vyras tenepalieka žmonos.
12 Kitiems sakau aš, ne Viešpats: jei kuris brolis turi netikinčią žmoną ir ji sutinka gyventi su juo, tenesiskiria su ja.
13 Taip pat ir moteris, turinti netikintį vyrą, kuris sutinka su ja gyventi, tenesiskiria su juo.
14 Mat netikintis vyras pašventinamas žmona, o netikinti žmona pašventinama vyru. Kitaip jūsų vaikai būtų netyri, o dabar jie šventi.
15 Bet, jei netikintis nori skirtis, tesiskiria. Tokiais atvejais brolis ar sesuo nėra surišti, nes Dievas mus pašaukė ramybei.
16 Iš kur žinai, žmona, kad išgelbėsi vyrą? Arba iš kur tau žinoma, vyre, kad išgelbėsi žmoną?
17 Todėl, kaip Viešpats kuriam paskyrė, kokį Dievas kurį pašaukė, to jis ir toliau tesilaiko. Taip aš mokau visose bažnyčiose.
18 Jei kas buvo pašauktas apipjaustytas, tenesistengia nuslėpti apipjaustymo. Jei buvo pašauktas neapipjaustytas, tenedaro apipjaustymo.
19 Apipjaustymas yra niekas ir neapipjaustymas yra niekas, tik Dievo įsakymų laikymasis yra viskas.
20 Kiekvienas tepasilieka toks, koks buvo pašauktas.
21 Jei buvai pašauktas, būdamas vergas, nesijaudink dėl to, bet jei gali tapti laisvas, pasinaudok proga.
22 Viešpatyje pašauktas vergas yra Jo išlaisvintas. Panašiai ir pašauktas laisvasis yra Kristaus vergas.
23 Jūs esate nupirkti už didelę kainą, todėl nepasidarykite žmonių vergais.
24 Kiekvienas, broliai, kokie buvote pašaukti, tokie ir pasilikite prieš Dievą.
25 Dėl nesusituokusių neturiu Viešpaties įsakymo, bet duodu savo patarimą kaip tas, kuris iš Viešpaties gailestingumo vertas pasitikėjimo.
26 Taigi manau, jog yra gerai, atsižvelgiant į šių laikų suspaudimusgerai žmogui būti tokiam.
27 Jei esi susietas su žmona, neieškok skyrybų. Likai be žmonos neieškok žmonos.
28 Jei vedi, nenusidedi, ir jei mergina išteka, nenusideda. Tačiau šitokie žmonės turės kūno vargų, o aš norėčiau jus apsaugoti nuo jų.
29 Sakau jums, broliai: laikas trumpas! Belieka tiems, kurie turi žmonas, gyventi, tarsi jų neturėtų,
30 ir kurie verkia, tarsi neverktų, ir kurie džiaugiasi, tarsi nesidžiaugtų, ir kurie perka, tarsi neįsigytų,
31 ir kurie naudojasi šiuo pasauliu,tarsi nesinaudotų. Nes šio pasaulio pavidalas praeina.
32 Norėčiau, kad jūs gyventumėte be rūpesčių. Nesusituokęs rūpinasi Viešpaties reikalaisstengiasi patikti Viešpačiui.
33 O susituokęs rūpinasi pasaulio reikalaisstengiasi patikti žmonai.
34 Yra skirtumas tarp žmonos ir mergaitės. Netekėjusi moteris rūpinasi Viešpaties reikalais, kad būtų šventa kūnu ir dvasia, o ištekėjusi rūpinasi pasaulio reikalaiskaip patikti vyrui.
35 Tai kalbu jūsų pačių labui, ne norėdamas užnerti jums kilpą, bet dėl to, kad tai yra tinkama ir kad jūs neblaškomi galėtumėte atsiduoti Viešpačiui.
36 Jei kas mano būsiant jam negarbinga, kad jo mergaitė liks senmergė, ir jei taip reikia, tedaro kaip nori,nenusidės,tegul jie susituokia.
37 Bet jei kas savo širdyje yra tvirtai apsisprendęs, ne iš prievartos, bet būdamas savo valios šeimininkas, ir savo širdyje nutaręs išsaugoti savo mergaitę, tas gerai padarys.
38 Taigi, kas išleidžia savo mergaitę, gerai daro, o kas neišleidžia savo mergaitės, geriau daro.
39 Žmona surišta įstatymu, kol jos vyras gyvas. Vyrui mirus, ji laisva ir gali tekėti už ko nori, tik Viešpatyje.
40 Bet, mano nuomone, ji bus laimingesnė netekėdama. Manau, kad ir aš turiu Dievo Dvasią.
1 Now concerning the things about which you wrote to me: it is good for a man not to touch a woman. 2 But, because of sexual immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. 3 Let the husband give his wife the affection owed her, and likewise also the wife her husband. 4 The wife doesn’t have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise also the husband doesn’t have authority over his own body, but the wife does. 5 Don’t deprive one another, unless it is by consent for a season, that you may give yourselves to fasting and prayer, and may be together again, that Satan doesn’t tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
6 But this I say by way of concession, not of commandment. 7 Yet I wish that all men were like me. However, each man has his own gift from God, one of this kind, and another of that kind. 8 But I say to the unmarried and to widows, it is good for them if they remain even as I am. 9 But if they don’t have self-control, let them marry. For it’s better to marry than to burn with passion. 10 But to the married I command—not I, but the Lord—that the wife not leave her husband 11 (but if she departs, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled to her husband), and that the husband not leave his wife.
12 But to the rest I—not the Lord—say, if any brother has an unbelieving wife, and she is content to live with him, let him not leave her. 13 The woman who has an unbelieving husband, and he is content to live with her, let her not leave her husband. 14 For the unbelieving husband is sanctified in the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified in the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. 15 Yet if the unbeliever departs, let there be separation. The brother or the sister is not under bondage in such cases, but God has called us in peace. 16 For how do you know, wife, whether you will save your husband? Or how do you know, husband, whether you will save your wife?
17 Only, as the Lord has distributed to each man, as God has called each, so let him walk. So I command in all the assemblies.
18 Was anyone called having been circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Has anyone been called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised. 19 Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but what matters is keeping God’s commandments. 20 Let each man stay in that calling in which he was called. 21 Were you called being a bondservant? Don’t let that bother you, but if you get an opportunity to become free, use it. 22 For he who was called in the Lord being a bondservant is the Lord’s free man. Likewise he who was called being free is Christ’s bondservant. 23 You were bought with a price. Don’t become bondservants of men. 24 Brothers, let each man, in whatever condition he was called, stay in that condition with God.
25 Now concerning virgins, I have no commandment from the Lord, but I give my judgment as one who has obtained mercy from the Lord to be trustworthy. 26 Therefore I think that because of the distress that is on us, it’s good for a man to remain as he is. 27 Are you bound to a wife? Don’t seek to be freed. Are you free from a wife? Don’t seek a wife. 28 But if you marry, you have not sinned. If a virgin marries, she has not sinned. Yet such will have oppression in the flesh, and I want to spare you. 29 But I say this, brothers: the time is short. From now on, both those who have wives may be as though they had none; 30 and those who weep, as though they didn’t weep; and those who rejoice, as though they didn’t rejoice; and those who buy, as though they didn’t possess; 31 and those who use the world, as not using it to the fullest. For the mode of this world passes away.
32 But I desire to have you to be free from cares. He who is unmarried is concerned for the things of the Lord, how he may please the Lord; 33 but he who is married is concerned about the things of the world, how he may please his wife. 34 There is also a difference between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman cares about the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit. But she who is married cares about the things of the world—how she may please her husband. 35 This I say for your own benefit, not that I may ensnare you, but for that which is appropriate, and that you may attend to the Lord without distraction.
36 But if any man thinks that he is behaving inappropriately toward his virgin, if she is past the flower of her age, and if need so requires, let him do what he desires. He doesn’t sin. Let them marry. 37 But he who stands steadfast in his heart, having no urgency, but has power over his own will, and has determined in his own heart to keep his own virgin, does well. 38 So then both he who gives his own virgin in marriage does well, and he who doesn’t give her in marriage does better.
39 A wife is bound by law for as long as her husband lives; but if the husband is dead, she is free to be married to whomever she desires, only in the Lord. 40 But she is happier if she stays as she is, in my judgment, and I think that I also have God’s Spirit.