Casamento
O casamento é aliança sagrada instituída por Deus. Ele une marido e mulher em uma só carne — pacto de amor, fidelidade e companheirismo que reflete o amor de Cristo pela Igreja.
Fundamento divino
Não é bom que o homem esteja só. Deus criou o casamento como aliança de companheirismo, amor e fecundidade.
Fidelidade conjugal
O que Deus ajuntou não separe o homem. O casamento deve ser honrado e o leito matrimonial preservado sem impureza.
Henela, bhenaangota ngabha bhabhele kabhele, nambo mmele gumo. Bahi, chibhachilondanike Annoongo, amundu bhakoto kuchilekania."
Ayesu bhakaajangula, "Bholi, mwangachomanga mu Majaandiko ga Annoongo, kubhee Annoongo bhabhakaatenda amundu tangu kandahi, nga bhakaatenda hanalome na haikege? Na Annoongo bhakalobhola, ‘Ligongo helyo mwanalome bhapakwaaleka atati na anyongo bhabhe, bhapakondekana na hanu bhabhe, bhoa bhabhele bhapakubhehe mmele gumo?’ Henela, bhenaangota ngabha bhabhele kabhele, nambo mmele gumo. Bahi, chibhachilondanike Annoongo, amundu bhakoto kuchilekania."
Na Annoongo bhakalobhola, ‘Ligongo helyo mwanalome bhapakwaaleka atati na anyongo bhabhe, bhapakondekana na hanu bhabhe, bhoa bhabhele bhapakubhehe mmele gumo?’ Henela, bhenaangota ngabha bhabhele kabhele, nambo mmele gumo. Bahi, chibhachilondanike Annoongo, amundu bhakoto kuchilekania."
Ngani ja talaka
"Jijaandikwe mu majaandiko ga Annoongo, ‘Mundu joajola jwaapala kwaaleka hanu bhabhe, apalikwa kwaajandikila talaka.’" Nambo nenga ndendakunnobholelanga, "Mundu handa apala kwaaleka hanu bhabhe ligongo lya lyohalela na ngabha ligongo lya ngoongola, atendakwatenda mwikege jonojwe kubhee jwa ngoongola, na jonojwe jwaapakwaalombela mwikege jonojwe jwaalekitwe na jono atenda ngoongola."
Majigano nnani ja kuleka ngoongola
Ayesu akapunda kulongela, "Ntekujohanikianga yakubhehe bhandu bhatekulobholelwa, ‘Nkotokutendanga ngoongola!’" Nambo nenga ndendakunnobholelanga, joajola jwakunnola mwikege kwa kunnokolila, bahi atekutenda ngongola na jonojwe mwikege muntima gwabhe.
Bhenaangota bhakajangulanga, "Amusa bhakalagia kubhehe hangwana bhakombola kwaajandikila hanu bhabhe talaka na kwaaleka hanu bhabhe."
Ayesu bhakaalobholelanga, "Amusa bhakajandika malagilo gangani ligongo ngapokelanga majiganao. Nambo tangu kualakilwa kwa dunia, ‘Annoongo bhakahalakia hangwana na mwikege.’ ‘Kwa ligongo lya henela mwanalome apakwaaleka atati bhabhe na anyongo bhabhe,’ na kulondanika na hanu bhabhe, ‘Na bhenaangota bhabhele bhapakubhee mmele gumo.’ Henela, bhenaangota ngabhee bhabhele kabhele ila nga mmele gumo. Bahi, chibhalondanike Annoongo, amundu bhakotokulekania."
Na mwikege handa bhabhaaleka hangwana bhabhe na kulombelwa na hangwana bhangi, helahela bhena bhatenda ngoongola."
Amor como Cristo
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a igreja. O amor conjugal reflete o evangelho em ação.
Mwangota akaanalome, mwaapalange akahanu bhinu handa henela Akilisito chibhatekulipala libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela jonojwe kwa kuchibhoa mweene mmele gwabhe. akatenda henela ili kwa lilobhe lyabhe, kwaatendanga kubhee bhandu bha jika mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito kubhee lya kuhalala kwa kulijelejea lilobhe lyabhe kwa machi,
Mwangota akaanalome, mwaapalange akahanu bhinu handa henela Akilisito chibhatekulipala libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela jonojwe kwa kuchibhoa mweene mmele gwabhe. akatenda henela ili kwa lilobhe lyabhe, kwaatendanga kubhee bhandu bha jika mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito kubhee lya kuhalala kwa kulijelejea lilobhe lyabhe kwa machi, ili akombole kuchipatila lilubhalo lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito lilibhekitwe ligongo lya Annoongo, lyanga kulemwa kohakola, na chilebhe choachela chichilandana na genago.
Mwangota akaanalome, mwaapalange akahanu bhinu handa henela Akilisito chibhatekulipala libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela jonojwe kwa kuchibhoa mweene mmele gwabhe. akatenda henela ili kwa lilobhe lyabhe, kwaatendanga kubhee bhandu bha jika mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito kubhee lya kuhalala kwa kulijelejea lilobhe lyabhe kwa machi, ili akombole kuchipatila lilubhalo lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito lilibhekitwe ligongo lya Annoongo, lyanga kulemwa kohakola, na chilebhe choachela chichilandana na genago. Bahi, akanalome bhabhapalange akahanu bhabhe handa chibhahipalanga mimele jabhenji akaachinabhene. Jaapala hanu bhabhe achipala mweene. Kwa maana jwaakwa mundu joajola jwaatendakuguchimwa mmele gwabhe, nambo bhatendakugulia na kuguweka ngobho. Henela nga Akilisito chibhalitendela lilubhalo lya bhandu lilyaahobhalela jonojwe, kwa kubhee twenga jika nga yeega ya mmele gwabhe,
Bahi, akanalome bhabhapalange akahanu bhabhe handa chibhahipalanga mimele jabhenji akaachinabhene. Jaapala hanu bhabhe achipala mweene.
Bahi, akanalome bhabhapalange akahanu bhabhe handa chibhahipalanga mimele jabhenji akaachinabhene. Jaapala hanu bhabhe achipala mweene. Kwa maana jwaakwa mundu joajola jwaatendakuguchimwa mmele gwabhe, nambo bhatendakugulia na kuguweka ngobho. Henela nga Akilisito chibhalitendela lilubhalo lya bhandu lilyaahobhalela jonojwe, kwa kubhee twenga jika nga yeega ya mmele gwabhe,
Mwangota akaahanu mwaajeketelange akaanalome bhinu handa chimwaajeketela Hangwana Ayesu. Kwa kubhee mwanalome nga nachilongola kwa hanu bhabhe handa henela Akilisito chibhatekubhee nachilongola mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela, yakubhee nga mmele gwabhe, na jono Akilisito nga Akombohi jwa mmele gwabhe. Handa henela libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito chilitendakwaajeketela Akilisito, hela hela akaahanu bhabhaajeketelanga akanalome bhabhenji mu hikubho yoa.
Mwangota akaahanu mwaajeketelange akaanalome bhinu handa chimwaajeketela Hangwana Ayesu. Kwa kubhee mwanalome nga nachilongola kwa hanu bhabhe handa henela Akilisito chibhatekubhee nachilongola mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela, yakubhee nga mmele gwabhe, na jono Akilisito nga Akombohi jwa mmele gwabhe.
Mwangota akaahanu mwaajeketelange akaanalome bhinu handa chimwaajeketela Hangwana Ayesu. Kwa kubhee mwanalome nga nachilongola kwa hanu bhabhe handa henela Akilisito chibhatekubhee nachilongola mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela, yakubhee nga mmele gwabhe, na jono Akilisito nga Akombohi jwa mmele gwabhe. Handa henela libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito chilitendakwaajeketela Akilisito, hela hela akaahanu bhabhaajeketelanga akanalome bhabhenji mu hikubho yoa.
Mwangota akaanalome, mwaapalange akahanu bhinu handa henela Akilisito chibhatekulipala libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela jonojwe kwa kuchibhoa mweene mmele gwabhe. akatenda henela ili kwa lilobhe lyabhe, kwaatendanga kubhee bhandu bha jika mu libhoga lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito kubhee lya kuhalala kwa kulijelejea lilobhe lyabhe kwa machi, ili akombole kuchipatila lilubhalo lya bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito lilibhekitwe ligongo lya Annoongo, lyanga kulemwa kohakola, na chilebhe choachela chichilandana na genago. Bahi, akanalome bhabhapalange akahanu bhabhe handa chibhahipalanga mimele jabhenji akaachinabhene. Jaapala hanu bhabhe achipala mweene. Kwa maana jwaakwa mundu joajola jwaatendakuguchimwa mmele gwabhe, nambo bhatendakugulia na kuguweka ngobho. Henela nga Akilisito chibhalitendela lilubhalo lya bhandu lilyaahobhalela jonojwe, kwa kubhee twenga jika nga yeega ya mmele gwabhe, Handa chiitekujandikwa mu Majandiko ga Annoongo, "Ligongo helyo mwanalome apakwaaleka atati mundu na anyongo mundu bhabhe, na jonojwe apakulondanika na hanu bhabhe, na bhena bhabhele bhapakubhee mmele gumo." Gagatekuchiiya nga makolongwa, nambo nenga ndendakulongela kwa ngani ja Akilisito na libhoga lya bhandu lilyaahobhalela jonojwe. Nambo ganga Majandiko nga ligongo linunji kabhele, kila mwanalome apalikwa kwaapala hanu bhabhe handa chibhatendakuchipala mweene, na jonojwe hanumundu apalikwa kwaajeketela hangwana bhabhe.
Handa chiitekujandikwa mu Majandiko ga Annoongo, "Ligongo helyo mwanalome apakwaaleka atati mundu na anyongo mundu bhabhe, na jonojwe apakulondanika na hanu bhabhe, na bhena bhabhele bhapakubhee mmele gumo."
Nambo ganga Majandiko nga ligongo linunji kabhele, kila mwanalome apalikwa kwaapala hanu bhabhe handa chibhatendakuchipala mweene, na jonojwe hanumundu apalikwa kwaajeketela hangwana bhabhe.
Nambo ganga Majandiko nga ligongo linunji kabhele, kila mwanalome apalikwa kwaapala hanu bhabhe handa chibhatendakuchipala mweene, na jonojwe hanumundu apalikwa kwaajeketela hangwana bhabhe.
Mwangota nga mwabhandu bha Annoongo, henela ngongola na hikubho hibohu yoayela na kulokolila kupanga hikubho hibohu hikotokubhee pakati jinunji.
Submissão e respeito
Mulheres, sujeitem-se aos próprios maridos. Maridos, convivam com as esposas com conhecimento e honra.
Pureza no casamento
Não adulterarás. A impureza sexual destrói alianças e famílias. Deus chama à santidade no matrimônio.
Nambo kwa ligongo lya kujogoa kwa ngoongola, bahi, kila mwanalome na abhee na hanu jwabhe mwene, na kila mwikege abhee na hangwana jwabhe mwene.
Mwananalome apalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hanu bhabhe, na bhena hanu mundu apaalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hangwana bhabhe. Hanu mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, bali hangwana bhabhe abhinago, hela hela hangwana mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, ila hanu bhabhe abhinago.
Mwananalome apalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hanu bhabhe, na bhena hanu mundu apaalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hangwana bhabhe. Hanu mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, bali hangwana bhabhe abhinago, hela hela hangwana mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, ila hanu bhabhe abhinago. Kila mundu akoto kwaajima ajabhe, ila handa nkondikininge kwa machobha gantekondananga, ili nkombolange kuchibhoa mu kwaajopa Annoongo, kabhele mmujilanange ili Lichetani akoto kwaajiganga ligongo lya kulepela kuchiibhila kwinunji.
Mwananalome apalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hanu bhabhe, na bhena hanu mundu apaalikwa kwaatendela kila chilebhe chichipalikwa kwa hangwana bhabhe. Hanu mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, bali hangwana bhabhe abhinago, hela hela hangwana mundu jwangali malola kwa ngani ja mmele gwabhe, ila hanu bhabhe abhinago. Kila mundu akoto kwaajima ajabhe, ila handa nkondikininge kwa machobha gantekondananga, ili nkombolange kuchibhoa mu kwaajopa Annoongo, kabhele mmujilanange ili Lichetani akoto kwaajiganga ligongo lya kulepela kuchiibhila kwinunji.
Nangocheni kwa bhenibhala bhangalombelanga na bhenibhala akaawelwa ndendakunnobholela kubhee nga yammbone kubhee handa nenga chinitama. Handa mundu ngakombola kuchihibhila, bahi na aloombele, kwakubhee nga mbaya muno kulombela au kulombwa nambo ngabha kulokolila.
Kwa bhenibhala bhabhatekulombelana ngweti malagilo, kabhele ngabha jangu, ila nga ja Hangwana, hanu na akotokulekana na hangwana bhabhe, nambo handa bhalekininge na bhena, bahi bhaigale hiyoyo pangali kulombwa, handa ngabha henela, achikichane na hangwana bhabhe. Na jono hangwana akoto kwaajandikila na kwaapekea talaka hanu bhabhe.
Kwa kubhee jonojwe hangwana jwangahobhalela Akilisito atendakondekwa kwa Annoongo kwa kulondanika na hanu bhabhe, na jono mwikege jwaangahobhalela Akilisito atendakondekwa kwa Annoongo kwa kulondanika na hangwana bhabhe. Handa ngabha henela bhana bhabhenji bhakakondikweehopo kwa Annoongo, nambo nangocheni bhabhilinge bhana bhakwe Annoongo.
Chimbala nenga mwangota nkotokubhee na lipamba. Mundu jwangalombela apakupangana lihengo lya Hangwana henela chibhapakwabhajila Hangwana. Nambo analome jwaalombile apangana hilebhe ya pachilambo, ili ammajile hanu mundu, na jono kuganikia kwabhe kutekumetunika pabhele. Mwikege jwangalombelwa au ahenja atendakuchibhoa mweene ligongo lya kupangana lihengo lya Hangwana. Nambo mwikege jwaalombwite atendakupangana hilebhe ya pachilambo pani ili ammajile hangwana mundu.
Mwikege jwaalombwite atabhitwe na malagilo ga ulombela kwa machobha goa hangwana bhabhe pabhabhee jwamomi. Nambo hangwana mundu handa atekujomoka, mwikege jonojwe ngatabhwa na malagilo ga hangwana mundu, na handa apaalite kulombwa na analome jongi joajola jwaapalite, ila hipaalikwa abhee mwanalome jwaahobhalela Akilisito.
Majigano kwa ngani ja ulombela
Bahi, kwa ngani yeniyela hinikanyandikilanga, mwangota nnobholanga, nga yammbone handa mundu ngalombela. Nambo kwa ligongo lya kujogoa kwa ngoongola, bahi, kila mwanalome na abhee na hanu jwabhe mwene, na kila mwikege abhee na hangwana jwabhe mwene.
Nchibhekenge kuatali na ngooongola. Mabohu gangi goha kuteendeka panja ja mmele nambo mundu jwa ngoongola atenda mabohu kupetela mmele gwabhe mweene. Bholi, ngaimanyanga kubhee mimele jinunji nga Nyuumba ja Mboomo ja Annoongo jwaatama nkati jinunji, yakubhee mukampokelanga kubhoka kwa Annoongo? Mwangota bahi, ngabha mimele jinunji ngabha jinunji mwakaachinabhene ila nga jakwe Annoongo. Kwa kubhee nkahemelwanga kwa bei ngolongwa. Henela, muitumiange mimele jinunji ligongo lya kwaalumbalila Annoongo.
Mundu jongi akombola kulongela, "Chaakulya nga kwa ligongo lya lutumbo, na lutumbo nga kwa ligongo lya chaakulya." Nambo Annoongo apakuhialibiana hibhele yoha hibhele. Mmele gwa amundu ngabha kwa ligongo lya ngoongola bali nga kwa ligongo lya lihengo lya kwaatumikila Hangwana, na bhena Annoongo atendakujilolekea mimele jitu na kujipekea chakulya. Annoongo jwaakaayoa Hangwana Ayesu hela hela nga jwapakutuyoa twenga kwa machili gakwe.
Bholi, ngaimanyanga kubhee bhandu bhangalimmbone ngalekelwa ukolo gwa Annoongo? Nkotokuchitembanga! Bhandu bhabhatamanga umomi gwa ngoongola, bhabhajopanga hidimu, bhaloloi, au akanalome bhabhagolokana akaachinabhene, akaabwihi, bhailema, bhakukolelwa, bhakujegeja, bhandu bhabhapalanga hilebhe hijingi hibhee yabhe jika jabhe, bhenaangota bhoa ngajingilanga mu ukolo gwa Annoongo.
Mundu jwabhile na upalio kuhimbilila, kujangatila bhangi, jwabhile na upalio jwangali bwihu, ngachilolalola, na wala ngachipuna. Jwabhile na upalio atendakwatopea bhangi, ngalolea hikubho ya kwaajangatila mweene, wala ngatumbala chindema, na wala ngakombokela hikubho ibohu, mundu jwabhile na upalio ngahachukila ubohu, nambo atendakuhachukila ukweli. Mundu jwabhile na upalio kuimbalila kwa yoa, mundu jwabhile na upalio kuhobhalela bhangi, mundu jwabhile na upalio kulupalila.
Bholi, Akilisto atekumetunika mu hibhoga hibhoga? Bholi, Apaulo nga jwaakabhambwa panchalaba ligongo linunji? Bholi, nkabatichwanga ili mmangange bhabhachijigana bha Apaulo?
Ndendakwaachukulu Annoongo kubhee nangabaticha mundu joajola pakati jinunji ila nakaabatichanga Akilisipo na Agayo. Henela jwakwa pakati jinunji jwaakombola kulongela kubhee akabatichwa ili abhee jwaachijigana jwangu. Eloo ndekombokela, nakabaticha na akaalongo bha Asitefano, nambo kupunda bhenaangota ngakombokela handa nakabaticha mundu jongi joajola. Akilisito jwanganduma kubaticha, ila andumite kutangacha Ngani Jammbone, kabhele ndangache pangali kulupalila malango ga bhandu bhangi, ili machili ga malilo ga Akilisito panchalaba gakotokubhonekanga ngabha chilebhe.
Ngoongola ngapalikwa kwa bhandu bhabhahobhalela Akilisito
Hibhii ngani ya kuaminika kubhee jibhii ngoongola pakati jinunji, nga ngoongola jibohu yakubhee jangabhokela hata pakati ja bhandu bhangaamanya Annoongo. Ndekulobholelwa kubhee jumo jwinunji atama na hanu bha atati bhabhe! Nkombolanga bholi kuchipuna? Wala mwangajoanga mitima kubhina ili kupala mundu jwaatendite chikubho hecho abhoke pakati jinunji.
Sabedoria conjugal
Acha esposa, acha o bem. Bebe água da tua própria cisterna. A fidelidade conjugal é fonte de bênção permanente.
Bíblia e casamento
Deus abomina o divórcio. A aliança matrimonial é reflexo da aliança de Deus com seu povo — sagrada e eterna.
Exemplos bíblicos
O Cântico dos Cânticos celebra o amor conjugal. A Bíblia honra o casamento em toda a sua beleza e profundidade.
Juízo e restauração
O Senhor é testemunha do pacto conjugal. Casamentos quebrados podem ser restaurados pelo poder e graça de Deus.
Pakibha na haikege bhamo na bhena bhakibha halondoi bha Annoongo, lihina lyabhe Aana amwali bha Afanueli, bha chilongelo cha Aasheli. Mu umwali gwabhe bhakalombwa na kutama yaaka saba tu na hangwana bhabhe.
"Handa amundu bhannalike paulombela, nkoto kutama hitengu ya kutopea ikoto kubhehe bhatekupanganikiwa chene chitengu bhabhaalikwe akolongwa kupunda mwenga.
"Mundu johajola jwampekea hanu bhabhe talaka na kulombela hanu jongi bhatenda ngongola, na amundu bhoa bhala bhabhalombela ahikege bhabhalekitwe, bhatenda ngongola."
Mu machobha ga Anuhu bhandu bhatendita kulyee, na kung’wee, na kulombelanga na kulombwanga mpaka lichobha lela Anuhu pabhakajingila mu ntumbwi nkolongwa gugukakemwa chapina, hula ngolongwa jikakoma jikaakomanga bhandu na hilebhe yoha hikajomoka.
Ayesu akajimuka na kwaakonya jonijola mwikege, "Mwa amama, bhabhi koji bhandu bhabhakankamula, bholi, jwakwa mundu joajola jwatekunhukumula?"
Jonijola mwikege akaajangula, "Mwe mwa akolo jwakwa mundu jwatekuhukumula."
Ayesu akaalobholela, "Maha na nenga kabhele nganhukumula. Nyaule kwachinu nkotokutenda kabhele mabohu kabhele."
Helahela mundu joajola jwaalekite nyuumba, au akaanung’una mundu, au akaalombo, au atati, au anyongo au bhana, au migonda, ligongo lya nenga, apakupokela mala mia kupunda chenichela chibhaatendite, na kupata umomi gwangapela.
Bahi, bhakaalobholelanga, "Bhannyigana, Amusa akalobhola amundu bhabhalombile handa ajomwike pangali kuleka bhana, hipalikwa anung’una bhabhe bhaalombele bhena nhwelwa, ili bhaapatile anung’una bhabhe bhana. Lichobha lya kuyoka bhandu ngalombela wala kulombwa, nambo bhapakubhee handa Bhatumichi bha kunani kwa Annoongo.
Kwa kubhee nkati ja ntima gabhoka maganikilo gabhou, ga koma, ga ngongola, ga uloloi, ga kujibha, ga kopokea hilebhe ya unani na maligo.
Bahi, hikubho hiibhokana nakulokolilwa kubohu kwa mmele nga, ngongola, ulolohi, uhakwa, kuchalila hidimu, uhabhi, upwati, bhulwa, bwihu, lilaka, hilema, mataukano, mpwato lilaka, kolelwa, kulyee muno na hikubho yengi handa yeneyo. Ndendakunyamukanga handa chindekulongolela kunnyamukanga, bhandu bhabhatendanga hikubho heyo ngapatanga umwenye gwa Annoongo gubhee gwabhenji.
Kwa kulandanikia, mwikege jwaatekulombwa atenda kutabhwa na Malagilo machobha goha hangwana bhabhe pabhabhee jwamomi, nambo hangwana bhabhe pabhapakujomoka, gena Malagilo ngabhee na machili kabhele kwa jono mwikege. Henela bahi, handa jono mwikege apakulombwa na mwanalome jongi kongo hangwana bhabhe abhi tangu jwamomi, apakemwa alolohi. Nambo hangwana bhabhe handa ajomwike, jono mwikege ngatabhwa kabhele na Malagilo ga ulombela, na handa apakulombwa na mundu jongi ngakemwa alolohi.