1 En daarna het dit gebeur. Absalom, die seun van Dawid, het naamlik 'n mooi suster gehad met die naam van Tamar, en Amnon, die seun van Dawid, was verlief op haar.
2 En Amnon het dit hom so aangetrek, dat hy siek was oor sy suster Tamar; want sy was 'n jongmeisie, en dit was in Amnon se oë onmoontlik om haar iets aan te doen.
3 Maar Amnon het 'n vriend gehad, met die naam van Jonadab, 'n seun van Dawid se broer S¡mea; en Jonadab was 'n baie skrander man.
4 En die vra hom: Waarom lyk jy môre vir môre so bedruk, seun van die koning? Sal jy my dit nie te kenne gee nie? Toe sê Amnon vir hom: Ek is verlief op Tamar, die suster van my broer Absalom.
5 Toe sê Jonadab vir hom: Gaan lê op jou bed en hou jou siek. As jou vader dan kom om jou te sien, moet jy vir hom sê: Laat my suster Tamar tog kom en my iets gee om te eet en die ete voor my oë klaarmaak, dat ek dit kan sien en uit haar hand eet.
6 En Amnon het gaan lê en hom siek gehou. Toe die koning kom om hom te sien, sê Amnon aan die koning: Laat my suster Tamar tog kom en voor my oë twee koekies maak, dat ek uit haar hand kan eet.
7 Daarop het Dawid na Tamar in die huis gestuur en gesê: Gaan tog in die huis van jou broer Amnon en maak vir hom ete klaar.
8 Toe gaan Tamar in die huis van haar broer Amnon terwyl hy daar lê, en sy het deeg geneem en geknie en koekies voor sy oë gemaak en die koekies gebak.
9 En sy het die pan geneem en dit voor hom omgekeer, maar hy het geweier om te eet. En Amnon het gesê: Laat almal van my weggaan! En almal het van hom weggegaan.
10 Toe sê Amnon aan Tamar: Bring die ete in die slaapkamer, dat ek uit jou hand kan eet. En Tamar het die koekies wat sy gemaak het, geneem en vir haar broer Amnon in die slaapkamer gebring.
11 Terwyl sy dit nader bring na hom om te eet, het hy haar gegryp en vir haar gesê: Kom lê by my, my suster!
12 Maar sy sê vir hom: Asseblief nie, my broer, onteer my nie, want so iets mag in Israel nie gedoen word nie; moenie so 'n skande begaan nie.
13 Waar sou ,k tog met my skande heen, en jy sou soos een van die dwase in Israel wees; spreek dan tog nou met die koning, want hy sal my nie van jou terughou nie.
14 Maar hy wou nie na haar luister nie en het haar oorweldig en haar onteer en met haar gemeenskap gehad.
15 Toe het Amnon 'n baie groot afkeer van haar gekry, ja, die afkeer wat hy van haar gekry het, was groter as die liefde waarmee hy haar liefgehad het; en Amnon sê vir haar: Staan op, gaan weg!
16 Maar sy sê vir hom: Aangaande die kwaad om my weg te stuur, dit is groter as die ander wat jy my aangedoen het. Maar hy wou nie na haar luister nie.
17 Daarop roep hy sy kneg wat hom bedien, en sê: Stuur hierdie vrou tog van my af weg buitentoe, en sluit die deur agter haar toe.
18 En sy het 'n lang rok met moue aangehad, want sulke mantels het die koninklike dogters wat maagde was, gedra. Toe sy bediende haar buitentoe uitgebring en die deur agter haar toegesluit het,
19 het Tamar as op haar hoof gestrooi en daardie lang rok met moue geskeur; daarby het sy haar hand op haar hoof gelê en aldeur geloop en weeklaag.
20 En haar broer Absalom sê vir haar: Was jou broer Amnon by jou? Swyg dan nou, my suster! Hy is jou broer, sit jou hart nie op hierdie saak nie. So het Tamar dan as 'n verlatene in die huis van haar broer Absalom gebly.
21 Toe koning Dawid al hierdie dinge hoor, het hy baie kwaad geword.
22 Maar Absalom het met Amnon geen kwaad of goed gepraat nie, maar Absalom het Amnon gehaat, omdat hy sy suster Tamar onteer het.
23 En n twee volle jare het Absalom skeerders gehad in Ba„l-Hasor wat by Efraim is, en Absalom het al die seuns van die koning genooi.
24 Daarop kom Absalom by die koning en sê: Kyk tog, u dienaar het skeerders. Laat die koning en sy dienaars tog met u dienaar saamgaan.
25 Maar die koning sê vir Absalom: Ag nee, my seun, laat ons tog nie almal saamgaan nie, sodat ons jou nie lastig val nie. En hy het by hom aangehou, maar hy wou nie gaan nie en het hom die afskeidseën gegee.
26 Daarop sê Absalom: So nie, laat my broer Amnon tog saam met ons gaan. Maar die koning sê vir hom: Waarom moet hy met jou saamgaan?
27 Toe Absalom dan by hom aanhou, het hy Amnon en al die seuns van die koning met hom saam laat gaan.
28 En Absalom het sy dienaars bevel gegee en gesê: Let tog op, net soos Amnon se hart vrolik is van die wyn en ek vir julle sê: Slaan Amnon dood! dan moet julle hom doodmaak. Wees nie bevrees nie; het ,k julle dit nie beveel nie? Wees sterk en wees wakker manne.
29 En die dienaars van Absalom het met Amnon gedoen soos Absalom hulle beveel het. Toe het al die seuns van die koning opgestaan, en hulle het elkeen op sy muil geklim en gevlug.
30 Terwyl hulle op pad was, kom die gerug by Dawid: Absalom het al die seuns van die koning doodgeslaan en nie een van hulle het oorgebly nie.
31 Toe staan die koning op en skeur sy klere en gaan lê op die grond, terwyl al sy dienaars met geskeurde klere daarby staan.
32 Maar Jonadab, die seun van Dawid se broer S¡mea, het geantwoord en gesê: My heer moet nie dink dat hulle al die jongmanne, die seuns van die koning, gedood het nie, maar Amnon alleen is dood, want dit was aan die gesig van Absalom te sien van die dag af dat hy sy suster Tamar onteer het.
33 My heer die koning moet dit dan nou nie ter harte neem en dink al die seuns van die koning is dood nie. Maar Amnon alleen is dood.
34 En Absalom het gevlug. Toe die jongman wat op wag staan, sy oë opslaan, sien hy dat daar 'n groot skare kom van 'n pad agter hom, aan die kant van die berg.
35 En Jonadab sê aan die koning: Kyk, daar kom die seuns van die koning; volgens die woord van u dienaar, so het dit gebeur.
36 En net toe hy klaar gespreek het -- daar kom die seuns van die koning aan en verhef hulle stem en ween. En ook die koning en al sy dienaars het geween met 'n baie groot geween.
37 Maar Absalom het gevlug en na T lmai, die seun van Amm¡hur, die koning van Gesur, gegaan. En Dawid het al die dae gerou oor sy seun.
38 En Absalom het gevlug en na Gesur gegaan, en hy was daar drie jaar lank.
39 En die gees van koning Dawid het baie verlang om na Absalom uit te gaan, want hy het homself getroos oor Amnon, dat hy dood was.
1 Now after this, it came about that Absalom, David's son, had a beautiful sister, whose name was Tamar; and David's son Amnon was in love with her.
2 And he was so deeply in love that he became ill because of his sister Tamar; for she was a virgin, and so it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her.
3 But Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother: and Jonadab was a very wise man.
4 And he said to him, O son of the king, why are you getting thinner day by day? will you not say what your trouble is? And Amnon said to him, I am in love with Tamar, my brother Absalom's sister.
5 Then Jonadab said to him, Go to your bed, and let it seem that you are ill: and when your father comes to see you, say to him, Let my sister Tamar come and give me bread, and get the food ready before my eyes, so that I may see it and take it from her hand.
6 So Amnon went to bed and made himself seem ill: and when the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, Please let my sister Tamar come and make me one or two cakes before my eyes, so that I may take food from her hand.
7 Then David sent to the house for Tamar and said, Go now to your brother Amnon's house and get a meal for him.
8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnon's house; and he was in bed. And she took paste and made cakes before his eyes, cooking them over the fire.
9 And she took the cooking-pot, and put the cakes before him, but he would not take them. And Amnon said, Let everyone go away from me. So they all went out.
10 Then Amnon said to Tamar, Take the food and come into my bedroom, so that I may take it from your hand. So Tamar took the cakes she had made and went with them into her brother Amnon's bedroom.
11 And when she took them to give them to him, he put his arms round her and said, Come to bed, my sister.
12 And answering him, she said, O my brother, do not put shame on me; it is not right for such a thing to be done in Israel: do not this evil thing.
13 What will become of me in my shame? and as for you, you will be looked down on with disgust by all Israel. Now then, go and make your request to the king, for he will not keep me from you.
14 But he would not give attention to what she said: but being stronger than she, he took her by force, and had connection with her.
15 Then Amnon was full of hate for her, hating her with a hate greater than his earlier love for her. And he said to her, Get up and be gone.
16 And she said to him, Not so, my brother, for this great wrong in sending me away is worse than what you did to me before. But he gave no attention to her.
17 Then he gave a cry to the servant who was waiting on him and said, Put this woman out, and let the door be locked after her.
18 Now she had on a long robe, such as in past times the king's virgin daughters were dressed in. Then the servant put her out, locking the door after her.
19 And Tamar, in her grief, put dust on her head; and she put her hand on her head and went away crying loudly.
20 And her brother Absalom said to her, Has your brother Amnon been with you? but now, let there be an end to your crying, my sister: he is your brother, do not take this thing to heart. So Tamar went on living uncomforted in her brother's house.
21 But when King David had news of all these things he was very angry; but he did not make trouble for Amnon his son, for he was dear to David, being his oldest son.
22 But Absalom said nothing to his brother Amnon, good or bad: for he was full of hate for him, because he had taken his sister Tamar by force.
23 Now after two full years, Absalom had men cutting the wool of his sheep in Baal-hazor, which is near Ephraim: and he sent for all the king's sons to come to his feast.
24 And Absalom came to the king and said, See now, your servant is cutting the wool of his sheep; will the king and his servants be pleased to come?
25 And the king said to Absalom, No, my son, let us not all go, or the number will be over-great for you. And he made his request again, but he would not go, but he gave him his blessing.
26 Then Absalom said, If you will not go, then let my brother Amnon go with us. And the king said to him, Is there any reason for him to go with you?
27 But Absalom went on requesting him till he let Amnon and all the king's sons go with him. And Absalom made a great feast like a feast for a king.
28 Now Absalom had given orders to his servants, saying, Now take note when Amnon's heart is glad with wine; and when I say to you, Make an attack on Amnon, then put him to death without fear: have I not given you orders? be strong and without fear.
29 So Absalom's servants did to Amnon as Absalom had given them orders. Then all the king's sons got up, and every man got on his beast and went in flight.
30 Now while they were on their way, news was given to David that Absalom had put to death all the sons of the king and that not one of them was still living.
31 Then the king got up in great grief, stretching himself out on the earth: and all his servants were by his side, with their clothing parted.
32 And Jonadab, the son of Shimeah, David's brother, said, Let not my lord have the idea that all the sons of the king have been put to death; for only Amnon is dead: this has been purposed by Absalom from the day when he took his sister Tamar by force.
33 So now, let not my lord the king take this thing to heart, with the idea that all the king's sons are dead: for only Amnon is dead.
34 But Absalom went in flight. And the young man who kept the watch, lifting up his eyes, saw that a great band of people was coming down the slope by the way of the Horons; and the watchman came and gave word to the king, saying, I saw men coming down by the way of the Horons, from the hillside.
35 And Jonadab said to the king, See, the king's sons are coming; as your servant said, so it is.
36 And while he was talking, the king's sons came, with weeping and loud cries: and the king and all his servants were weeping bitterly.
37 So Absalom went in flight and came to Talmai, the son of Ammihud, the king of Geshur, where he was for three years.
38 And the king was sorrowing for his son all the time.
39 And the heart of David was wasted with desire for Absalom: for he was comforted for the death of Amnon.