O marido
A Bíblia define o papel do marido com clareza: amar a esposa como Cristo amou a Igreja, ser fiel, protetor e líder servo no lar.
Amar como Cristo amou
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a Igreja e se entregou por ela. O amor do marido deve ser sacrificial e incondicional.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu nk’uko Kristo yakunze itoorero akaritangira ubugingo bwe.
Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe.
Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe. Koko reero, abantu ntibanga imibiri yaabo, ahuubwo barayigaburira kandi bakayireeberera, nk’uko Kristo agenzereza itoorero rye,
Nuuko reero namwe, buri mugabo akwiriye gukunda umugore we nk’uko yiikunda, kandi buri mugore akuubaha umugabo we.
Noone reero, nimuciike ku binyoma, buri muntu abwire mugenzi we ukuri, kuko twese turi ingingo z’umubiri wa Kristo. Kandi nimuraakara ntibibateere gukora icaaha, ndetse izuuba ntirikarenge mugifite uburaakari, kandi ntimugahe Sataani amahiirwe yo kubashuka. Abiibaga barekeraho kwiiba, ahuubwo batangire kwihaatira gukoreesha amaboko yaabo, kugira ngo babone uko bafasha abakene. Ntimugakoreeshe amagambo mabi, ahuubwo mukoreeshe amagambo meeza yaakuubaka ubugingo bw’abandi nk’uko babikeneye, kugira ngo abayumva abagirire akamaro. Kandi ntimukaraakaze Umwuka Weera, kuko uwo Mwuka ni ikimenyeetso Imaana yabashizeho kizaabaranga ku munsi wo gucungurwa kwanyu. Mwivaanemo gushaariirana koose n’umujinya, no kuraakara, n’intonganya, n’itimwe, ahuubwo mugirirane impuhwe n’ineeza, mubabarirane nk’uko Imaana yabababariye binyuze muri Kristo Yesu.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu kandi ntimukabagirire umwaga.
Bagore, mwubahe abagabo baanyu kuko ari byo mukwiriye gukora nk’abakristo.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu kandi ntimukabagirire umwaga.
Kandi kuri ibyo byose, mwongereho urukundo, ni rwo ruduhuuriza hamwe mu gutungaana rwose.
Fidelidade conjugal
O casamento é honroso e o leito conjugal é santo. O marido deve ser fiel à esposa da sua juventude em pensamento e ação.
Abantu boose buubahe ugushingiranwa kandi uburiri bw’abashaakanye bwe kwanduzwa kuko Imaana izaaciira urubanza abasambanyi n’abaheeheesi.
Ariko ndababwira yuuko umuntu weese ureeba umugore akamurarikira, aba amaze gusambana na we mu biteekerezo bye.
Ariko nje ndababwira ko umuntu weese wirukana umugore we atamuhooye gusambana, nyuma agatungwa n’undi mugabo, aba amuteeye ubusambanyi. Byongeye kandi, ushohoje uwo mugore wirukanywe na we aba asambanye.
Noone baba batakiri babiri, ahuubwo baba babaaye umubiri umwe. Bityo reero ico Imaana yafatanyije, ntihakagire ugitandukanya."
Umugabo ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugore we, kandi n’umugore ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugabo. Kuko umugore ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugabo we, byongeye kandi, umugabo na we ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugore we.
Ntihakagire uwiyima undi, keretse mubanje kubyumviikana, kandi na bwo kumara igihe gito, kugira ngo mubone uko musenga. Ariko mugomba kongera kugira imibonano bidatinze kugira ngo mutananirwa kwifata maze Sataani akaboneraho kubashuka.
Kuri abo baashaakanye, mbahaaye itegeko ritari iryanje, ahuubwo riturutse kuri Nyagasani. Umugore ntaagatandukane n’umugabo we, ariko aramutse atandukanye na we, ntaakongere gushingirwa ku wundi mugabo ahuubwo yiiyuzuze n’umugabo we, kandi n’umugabo ntaakiirukane umugore we.
Ku bandi, ibyo ngiiye kubabwira ni ibyanje si ibya Nyagasani. Umugabo weemera Kristo aramutse afite umugore utiizeera, kandi uwo mugore akeemera kubaana na we, ntaabwo agomba kumwirukana.
Nimwirinde ubusambanyi! Icaha coose umuntu akora, ntikigera ku mubiri we, naho usambana aba acumuriye umubiri we bwiite.
Convivência com sabedoria
O marido sábio vive com a esposa com entendimento, dando-lhe honra como co-herdeira da graça. A união conjugal reflete Cristo e a Igreja.
Ni co kimwe namwe bagabo, mwite ku bagore baanyu mu gihe muri kumwe mu buzima bwanyu, mubuubaha kuko ari igitsina gifite intege nke, kandi na bo ni abaragwa b’impaano nziiza y’ubugingo buhoraho. Mukore ibyo kugira ngo hatagira igitangiira amasengeesho yaanyu.
Ntimukagire ico mukora mubiteewe no kwikunda cangwa kwishira heejuru, ahuubwo mu kwiciisha bugufi kwanyu umuntu weese yibwire ko mugenzi we amuruta. Umuntu weese muri mwe ye kwita ku byifuuzo bye gusa ahuubwo azirikane n’iby’abandi.
Ntihakagire uwiituura undi inaabi yamugiriye, ahuubwo muharanire kugirirana ineeza, ndetse muyigirire boose.
Ntimukiifatanye n’abatiizeera kandi mudahwanye na bo. Mbese ubukiraanutsi bufite isaano ki n’ubukozi bw’ibibi? Cangwa se, hariho mubaano ki hagati y’umwijima n’umuco?
Urukundo ruriihangaana, urukundo rugira neeza, urukundo ntirugira ishari, urukundo ntirwiraariira cangwa ngo rwikuririze. Urukundo ntirukoza isoni, ntirushaaka ibyarwo, ntiruraakara, ntirugira inziika, ntirwishiimira gukora ibibi, ahuubwo rwishiimira ukuri. Urukundo rwihangaanira byose, rwemera byose, rwiringira byose kandi rutwihangaanisha muri byose.