Casamento
O casamento é aliança sagrada instituída por Deus. Ele une marido e mulher em uma só carne — pacto de amor, fidelidade e companheirismo que reflete o amor de Cristo pela Igreja.
Fundamento divino
Não é bom que o homem esteja só. Deus criou o casamento como aliança de companheirismo, amor e fecundidade.
Fidelidade conjugal
O que Deus ajuntou não separe o homem. O casamento deve ser honrado e o leito matrimonial preservado sem impureza.
Noone baba batakiri babiri, ahuubwo baba babaaye umubiri umwe. Bityo reero ico Imaana yafatanyije, ntihakagire ugitandukanya."
Arabasubiza ati, "Ntimwari mwasoma yuuko mu ntangiriro Rurema yabaremye nk’umugabo n’umugore, kandi akavuga ati, ‘Ni co gituma umugabo azaasiga se na nyina akabaana n’umugore we nuuko bombi bakaba umubiri umwe’? Noone baba batakiri babiri, ahuubwo baba babaaye umubiri umwe. Bityo reero ico Imaana yafatanyije, ntihakagire ugitandukanya."
kandi akavuga ati, ‘Ni co gituma umugabo azaasiga se na nyina akabaana n’umugore we nuuko bombi bakaba umubiri umwe’? Noone baba batakiri babiri, ahuubwo baba babaaye umubiri umwe. Bityo reero ico Imaana yafatanyije, ntihakagire ugitandukanya."
Kandi byaravuzwe ngo, ‘Uzaashaaka kwirukana umugore we akwiriye kumuha urwandiko rwemeza ko batandukanye.’ Ariko nje ndababwira ko umuntu weese wirukana umugore we atamuhooye gusambana, nyuma agatungwa n’undi mugabo, aba amuteeye ubusambanyi. Byongeye kandi, ushohoje uwo mugore wirukanywe na we aba asambanye.
Mwumviise ko byavuzwe ngo, ‘Ntuugasambane.’ Ariko ndababwira yuuko umuntu weese ureeba umugore akamurarikira, aba amaze gusambana na we mu biteekerezo bye.
Baravuga bati, "Moose yeemereye umugabo kwandikira umugore urwandiko rumwirukana nuuko akamwirukana."
Yesu arababwira ati, "Moose yabemereye iryo tegeko kuko mwari mufite imitima yiinangiye. Ariko mbere na mbere, ubwo Imaana yaremaga umuntu, ‘yabaremye umugabo n’umugore.’ ‘Ni co gituma umugabo azaasiga se na nyina akabaana n’umugore we, bombi bakaba umubiri umwe.’ Baba batakiri babiri ahuubwo bakaba umubiri umwe. Nuuko reero abo Imaana yateeranyije, ntihakagire ubatandukanya."
Kandi n’umugore utandukana n’umugabo we agashingirwa ku wundi mugabo aba asambanye".
Abantu boose buubahe ugushingiranwa kandi uburiri bw’abashaakanye bwe kwanduzwa kuko Imaana izaaciira urubanza abasambanyi n’abaheeheesi.
Abantu boose buubahe ugushingiranwa kandi uburiri bw’abashaakanye bwe kwanduzwa kuko Imaana izaaciira urubanza abasambanyi n’abaheeheesi.
Abantu boose buubahe ugushingiranwa kandi uburiri bw’abashaakanye bwe kwanduzwa kuko Imaana izaaciira urubanza abasambanyi n’abaheeheesi.
Amor como Cristo
Maridos, amai vossas mulheres como Cristo amou a igreja. O amor conjugal reflete o evangelho em ação.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu nk’uko Kristo yakunze itoorero akaritangira ubugingo bwe. Ibyo yabikoze kugira ngo yeeze itoorero akoreesheje ijambo rye n’amaazi,
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu nk’uko Kristo yakunze itoorero akaritangira ubugingo bwe. Ibyo yabikoze kugira ngo yeeze itoorero akoreesheje ijambo rye n’amaazi, maze aryigarurize ribengerana kandi ritagira inenge, nta mipfunyo cangwa ikindi kintu kitaboneye.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu nk’uko Kristo yakunze itoorero akaritangira ubugingo bwe. Ibyo yabikoze kugira ngo yeeze itoorero akoreesheje ijambo rye n’amaazi, maze aryigarurize ribengerana kandi ritagira inenge, nta mipfunyo cangwa ikindi kintu kitaboneye. Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe. Koko reero, abantu ntibanga imibiri yaabo, ahuubwo barayigaburira kandi bakayireeberera, nk’uko Kristo agenzereza itoorero rye, kuko turi ingingo z’umubiri we.
Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe.
Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe. Koko reero, abantu ntibanga imibiri yaabo, ahuubwo barayigaburira kandi bakayireeberera, nk’uko Kristo agenzereza itoorero rye, kuko turi ingingo z’umubiri we.
Bagore, mwubahe abagabo baanyu nk’uko mwubaha Nyagasani. Kuko umugabo ni we mutwe w’umugore nk’uko Kristo ari umutwe w’itoorero, ari ryo mubiri we. Nk’uko reero itoorero ryubaha Kristo, ni ko namwe bagore mugomba kuubaha abagabo baanyu muri byose.
Bagore, mwubahe abagabo baanyu nk’uko mwubaha Nyagasani. Kuko umugabo ni we mutwe w’umugore nk’uko Kristo ari umutwe w’itoorero, ari ryo mubiri we.
Bagore, mwubahe abagabo baanyu nk’uko mwubaha Nyagasani. Kuko umugabo ni we mutwe w’umugore nk’uko Kristo ari umutwe w’itoorero, ari ryo mubiri we. Nk’uko reero itoorero ryubaha Kristo, ni ko namwe bagore mugomba kuubaha abagabo baanyu muri byose.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu nk’uko Kristo yakunze itoorero akaritangira ubugingo bwe. Ibyo yabikoze kugira ngo yeeze itoorero akoreesheje ijambo rye n’amaazi, maze aryigarurize ribengerana kandi ritagira inenge, nta mipfunyo cangwa ikindi kintu kitaboneye. Uko ni ko abagabo bagomba gukunda abagore baabo nk’uko bakunda imibiri yaabo. Umugabo ukunda umugore we aba yiikunda ubwe. Koko reero, abantu ntibanga imibiri yaabo, ahuubwo barayigaburira kandi bakayireeberera, nk’uko Kristo agenzereza itoorero rye, kuko turi ingingo z’umubiri we. Ibyanditswe biravuga biti, "Ni co gituma umugabo azaasiga se na nyina akiifatanya n’umugore we, nuuko abo babiri bakaba umubiri umwe." Iryo ni ibanga rikomeye ry’ukuri, ariko nje mvuga yuuko rivuga kuri Kristo n’itoorero rye. Nuuko reero namwe, buri mugabo akwiriye gukunda umugore we nk’uko yiikunda, kandi buri mugore akuubaha umugabo we.
Ibyanditswe biravuga biti, "Ni co gituma umugabo azaasiga se na nyina akiifatanya n’umugore we, nuuko abo babiri bakaba umubiri umwe."
Nuuko reero namwe, buri mugabo akwiriye gukunda umugore we nk’uko yiikunda, kandi buri mugore akuubaha umugabo we.
Nuuko reero namwe, buri mugabo akwiriye gukunda umugore we nk’uko yiikunda, kandi buri mugore akuubaha umugabo we.
Ubwo muri abaana b’Imaana, ntibikwiriye ko ingeso mbi nk’ubusambanyi, kwiyandarika, no kurarikira ibintu, birangwa muri mwe.
Submissão e respeito
Mulheres, sujeitem-se aos próprios maridos. Maridos, convivam com as esposas com conhecimento e honra.
Bagore, mwubahe abagabo baanyu kuko ari byo mukwiriye gukora nk’abakristo.
Bagabo, mukunde abagore baanyu kandi ntimukabagirire umwaga.
Kandi kuri ibyo byose, mwongereho urukundo, ni rwo ruduhuuriza hamwe mu gutungaana rwose. Nuuko reero, ni mureke amahoro ya Kristo agenge imitima yaanyu, kuko ari yo mwahamagariwe ngo mube umwe. Kandi muje muhora mushiima. Maze mwemerere ijambo rya Kristo kuuzura mu bugingo bwanyu rwose, mugire n’ubwenge bwo kwiigiishanya no kugiirana inaama. Muje mushiimira Imaana mu mitima yaanyu muyiririmbira Zaaburi, ibisingizo n’izindi ndirimbo mubwirijwe n’Umwuka. Kandi ico muzaavuga coose n’ibyo muzaakora byose, mubikore mu izina ry’Umwami Yesu, mushiima Imaana Daata mubikeesha Kristo.
Kandi kuri ibyo byose, mwongereho urukundo, ni rwo ruduhuuriza hamwe mu gutungaana rwose.
Nuuko reero, nimwitandukanye n’irari ryanyu ry’iby’isi ribarimo, nk’ubusambanyi, gukora ibiteeye isoni, kurarikira ibibi, kurarikira ibirenze kubyo mufite, kuko iyo mugize mutyo, muba mushira imbere ubutunzi bw’isi, ari ko kuramya ibigirwamaana.
Ni co kimwe namwe bagabo, mwite ku bagore baanyu mu gihe muri kumwe mu buzima bwanyu, mubuubaha kuko ari igitsina gifite intege nke, kandi na bo ni abaragwa b’impaano nziiza y’ubugingo buhoraho. Mukore ibyo kugira ngo hatagira igitangiira amasengeesho yaanyu.
Ni co kimwe namwe bagabo, mwite ku bagore baanyu mu gihe muri kumwe mu buzima bwanyu, mubuubaha kuko ari igitsina gifite intege nke, kandi na bo ni abaragwa b’impaano nziiza y’ubugingo buhoraho. Mukore ibyo kugira ngo hatagira igitangiira amasengeesho yaanyu.
Pureza no casamento
Não adulterarás. A impureza sexual destrói alianças e famílias. Deus chama à santidade no matrimônio.
Ariko kuko hariho ubusambanyi bukabije, buri mugabo agomba kugira umugore we, na buri mugore akagira umugabo we.
Umugabo ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugore we, kandi n’umugore ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugabo. Kuko umugore ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugabo we, byongeye kandi, umugabo na we ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugore we.
Umugabo ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugore we, kandi n’umugore ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugabo. Kuko umugore ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugabo we, byongeye kandi, umugabo na we ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugore we. Ntihakagire uwiyima undi, keretse mubanje kubyumviikana, kandi na bwo kumara igihe gito, kugira ngo mubone uko musenga. Ariko mugomba kongera kugira imibonano bidatinze kugira ngo mutananirwa kwifata maze Sataani akaboneraho kubashuka.
Umugabo ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugore we, kandi n’umugore ntaakwiriye kwiyima umugabo. Kuko umugore ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugabo we, byongeye kandi, umugabo na we ntiyigenga ku mubiri we, ahuubwo ugengwa n’umugore we. Ntihakagire uwiyima undi, keretse mubanje kubyumviikana, kandi na bwo kumara igihe gito, kugira ngo mubone uko musenga. Ariko mugomba kongera kugira imibonano bidatinze kugira ngo mutananirwa kwifata maze Sataani akaboneraho kubashuka.
Kuri abo bataraashaaka hamwe n’abo baakuuweho abo baashaakanye, ndababwira yuuko iciiza ari uko baakwigumira bonyine nkanje. Ariko niiba badashobora kwifata, bagomba gushaaka, kuko ibyiza ari ugushaaka aho kwicwa n’irari.
Kuri abo baashaakanye, mbahaaye itegeko ritari iryanje, ahuubwo riturutse kuri Nyagasani. Umugore ntaagatandukane n’umugabo we, ariko aramutse atandukanye na we, ntaakongere gushingirwa ku wundi mugabo ahuubwo yiiyuzuze n’umugabo we, kandi n’umugabo ntaakiirukane umugore we.
Kuko umugabo utiizeera yezwa ku bw’umugore we, kandi umugore utiizeera na we yezwa ku bw’umugabo we. Bitabaaye bityo, abaana baabo baaba badatunganye imbere y’Imaana, kandi si ko biri kuko beeguriwe Imaana.
Ndabiifuuriza kudahagarika imitima. Udafite umugore aharanira gukora umurimo wa Nyagasani, kuko aba ashaaka gushiimiisha Imaana, naho umugabo ufite umugore, aharanira iby’isi ngo abone uko ashiimiisha umugore we, bityo reero akagira imitima ebyiri. Umugore utaraashaatse cangwa umukoobwa w’isugi ashiishikarira ibya Nyagasani, kugira ngo atungaane ku mubiri no ku mutima, naho umugore ufite umugabo ashiishikarira iby’isi, ashaakiisha uko yaashiimiisha umugabo we.
Umugore ufite umugabo ntaabwo aba yeemerewe gushingirwa umugabo we akiriho, ariko iyo umugabo we apfuuye, umugore afite uburenganzira bwo gushingirwa ku w’undi mugabo yiishimiye weese, ariko uwo mugabo akwiriye kuba ari umukristo.
Noone kubyerekeye ibyo mwanyandikiye, ni byiza ko umagabo atarongora. Ariko kuko hariho ubusambanyi bukabije, buri mugabo agomba kugira umugore we, na buri mugore akagira umugabo we.
Nimwirinde ubusambanyi! Icaha coose umuntu akora, ntikigera ku mubiri we, naho usambana aba acumuriye umubiri we bwiite. Ntimuuzi yuuko imibiri yaanyu ari urusengero rw’Umwuka Weera utuuye muri mwe mwahaawe n’Imaana kandi mukaba ari ntaabubaasha mwifiteho ngo mwigenge? Imaana yabacunguje ikiguzi gikomeye! Noone reero nimukoreeshe imibiri yaanyu kuyiheesha ikuzo.
Abandi baravuga bati, "Ibyokurya ni iby’inda, kandi n’inda ni iy’ibyokurya." Nyamara Imaana izaabitsemba byombi. Umubiri ntaabwo wagenewe ubusambanyi, ahuubwo wagenewe gukorera Nyagasani na Nyagasani akaba ari we uwureeberera. Imaana yazuuye Umwami Yesu, naatwe izaatuzuura ikoreesheje imbaraga zaayo.
Ntaabwo muuzi neeza yuuko inkozi z’ibibi zitazaaragwa Ubwami bw’Imaana? Muramenye ntimwibeeshe! Inkozi z’ibibi, abasenga ibishushaanyo, abasambanyi basanzwe n’abakora ibitingwa, abajuura, abanyamururu, abasinzi, abatukana, n’abambuzi, abo boose ntibazaaragwa Ubwami bw’Imaana.
Urukundo ruriihangaana, urukundo rugira neeza, urukundo ntirugira ishari, urukundo ntirwiraariira cangwa ngo rwikuririze. Urukundo ntirukoza isoni, ntirushaaka ibyarwo, ntiruraakara, ntirugira inziika, ntirwishiimira gukora ibibi, ahuubwo rwishiimira ukuri. Urukundo rwihangaanira byose, rwemera byose, rwiringira byose kandi rutwihangaanisha muri byose.
Mbese Kristo yagabanyijwemo ibice? Mbese ni Pawulo wababambiwe ku musaraba? Cangwa se mwabatijwe mu izina rya Pawulo?
Ndashiimira Imaana ko ari ntaan’umwe muri mwe nabatije keretse Kirisipo na Gaayo, kugira ngo hatagira umuntu uvuga ngo mwabatijwe mu izina ryanje. Icakora nabatije n’umuryango wa Sitefaano, kandi uretse abo, simpamya ko hari undi muntu nabatije. Kristo ntiyanyohereje kubatiza, ahuubwo yanyohereje kwamamaza Ubutumwa Bwiza, ntakoreesheje amagambo y’ubuhanga bw’abantu, kugira ngo urupfu rwa Yesu ku musaraba rudahinduka impfaabusa.
Nabwiwe inkuru y’imvaho yuuko muri mwe hari ubusambanyi bukabije, ndetse no ku buryo butaraaboneka no mu banyamahanga bataazi Imaana. Bavuga ko umugabo umwe muri mwe atunze umugore wa se. Noone muriishira heejuru! Ahuubwo mwari kubabara, maze uwakoze ico caaha akiirukanwa muri mwe.
Sabedoria conjugal
Acha esposa, acha o bem. Bebe água da tua própria cisterna. A fidelidade conjugal é fonte de bênção permanente.
Bíblia e casamento
Deus abomina o divórcio. A aliança matrimonial é reflexo da aliança de Deus com seu povo — sagrada e eterna.
Ntimukiifatanye n’abatiizeera kandi mudahwanye na bo. Mbese ubukiraanutsi bufite isaano ki n’ubukozi bw’ibibi? Cangwa se, hariho mubaano ki hagati y’umwijima n’umuco?
Ico Imaana ibashaakaho ni ukwezwa kwanyu, mukiirinda ubusambanyi, buri muntu akamenya kurinda umubiri we mu buryo butungaanye kandi bwiyubashe, mudatwarwa n’irari nk’uko abantu bataazi Imaana babigenza.
Ntihakagire uwiituura undi inaabi yamugiriye, ahuubwo muharanire kugirirana ineeza, ndetse muyigirire boose.
abasambanyi n’ibitingwa, abacuruuza abantu, ababeeshi, abatanga ubujurizi bw’ibinyoma, n’abandi boose bakora ibinyuranye n’inyigiisho nzima.
Umwepisikopi agomba kuba ari inyangamugayo, afite umugore umwe, atararikira ibirenze, agomba kwifata, kandi akiyubaha, agomba kugira ubupfura, kandi akamenya kwigiisha neeza,
Umudiyakooni akwiriye kuba umugabo ufite umugore umwe gusa, kandi akamenya gutegeka neeza abaana be n’abo mu rugo rwe boose,
Umukuru w’itoorero akwiriye kuba umuntu utagira umugayo, afite umugore umwe, afite abaana bizeera kandi batavugwaho ubukubaganyi cangwa kutumvira.
Exemplos bíblicos
O Cântico dos Cânticos celebra o amor conjugal. A Bíblia honra o casamento em toda a sua beleza e profundidade.
Juízo e restauração
O Senhor é testemunha do pacto conjugal. Casamentos quebrados podem ser restaurados pelo poder e graça de Deus.
Haariho n’umuhanuuzikazi witwaga Anna umukoobwa wa Fanuweli wo mu muryango wa Asheeli. Yamaranye n’umugabo we imyaka irindwi gusa arapfaakara
"Umuntu naagutumira mu bushitsi ntukiihitiremo kwicara mu ntebe y’icuubahiro, kuko haaba hari undi muntu waraaritswe ukurusha icuubahiro,
Umugabo wirukana umugore we, agashaaka undi aba akoze icaaha c’ubusambanyi. Kandi n’umugabo ushohoje umugore wirukanywe n’umugabo we, aba asambanye."
Muri ico gihe, abantu baariineezeezaga, baararyaga, baaranywaga, ndetse baarashingiranwaga, kugeza umunsi Nowa yinjiriye mu nkuge. Nuuko umwuzure uraaza urabarimbura boose.
Yesu aruunamuka aramubaza ati, "Mugore, abaakuregaga bari he? Nta n’umwe waguciiriye urubanza?"
Wa mugore aramusubiza ati, "Nta n’umwe daatabuja."
Yesu aramubwira ati, "Nanje ntaabwo nguciiriye urubanza. Genda, ariko uheereye noone ntuuzongere gukora icaaha."]
Maze umuntu weese wasize amazu, cangwa beene se, cangwa bashiki be, cangwa se, cangwa nyina, cangwa abaana, cangwa imirima ku bw’izina ryanje, azaahaabwa nka byo inshuro ijana, kandi ahaabwe n’ubugingo buhoraho.
"Mwigiisha, Moose yaravuze ati, ‘Umugabo n’azaapfa atabyaye, murumuna we azaacuure uwo mupfaakazi, kugira ngo aciikuure mwene nyina amubyarire abaana.’
Kuko mu izuuka ntihabamo gusohoza cangwa gushingirwa, ahuubwo baba nk’abaamalayika bo mu ijuru.
Kuko mu mutima ni ho haturuka ibiteekerezo bibi nk’ubwicanyi, ubusambanyi, ubuheeheesi, ubujuura, ububeeshi no gusebya abandi.
Dore ibikorwa bya kamere biriigaragaza, ni ubusambanyi, gukora ibiteeye isoni, ubwomanzi, gusenga ibishushaanyo, kuroga, kwangana, amakimbirane, ishari, uburaakari, intonganya, ubutumviikana, amacaakubiri, umujinya, ubusinzi, kwiyandarika mu byo kunywa n’ubuheeheesi, n’ibindi bisa bityo. Ndabiihanangiriza nk’uko nabibabwiye kare, yuuko abakora ibisa bityo, ntaamurage bazaahaabwa mu Bwami bw’Imaana.
Noone reero umugore washingiwe, itegeko rimuhambiira ku mugabo we igihe akiriho, ariko iyo umugabo amaze gupfa, itegeko ryo gushingiranwa ntiriba rikimufiteho ububaasha. Nuuko reero, iyo umugabo we akiriho akamureka, akaja kwibaanira n’undi mugabo yitwa umusambanyi, ariko iyo umugabo we apfuuye aba abohoowe ku tegeko, ni co gituma ataba umusambanyi iyo acuuwe n’undi mugabo.
Ariko ibi ni byo nkunenga: worohera uriiya mugore Yezebeeli wiiyita umuhanuuzikazi w’Imaana maze inyigiisho ze zikayobya abagaragu banje zibashoora mu bikorwa by’ubusambanyi no kurya ibyokurya byatuuwe ibigirwamaana.
Maze banga no kwihana ibyaha byabo by’ubwicanyi no kuroga, hamwe n’ubusambanyi n’ubujuura.
Ubucaamanza bwayo ni ubw’ukuri n’ubutabeera. Yaciiriye urubanza ya ndaaya y’icaamamare yahumanyije abo mu isi n’ubusambanyi bwayo. Imaana yayihannye kuko yiishe abagaragu baayo."